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[Doomblade187]

No one actually notices when I do shit like that though.

Got a haircut yesterday and no one said a thing.

As long as you like the haircut, is worth.

[MrRoboto75]

Easy, the people are broken. Go find better people.

I've tried but every time I go out I'm basically a ghost no one can see or interact with.

[Egan_BW]

I used to wear earrings, but people never noticed them so I stopped. There’s no point in it if no o e notices. I didn’t like them anyway, so it’s fine

I think people mostly notice things and appreciate them without commenting, but you should still dress however looks good to you.

Easy, the people are broken. Go find better people.

I've tried but every time I go out I'm basically a ghost no one can see or interact with.

There is a magic word for that. "Hello." It's pretty much a handshake protocol where both parties agree to listen to each other for a little bit~

Alternatively, may want to lay off on the invisibility cloak.

[Kagus]

There is a magic word for that. "Hello." It's pretty much a handshake protocol where both parties agree to listen to each other for a little bit~

Except for when they don't! Sometimes, people are just complete assholes and will completely, blatantly ignore you for no real reason.

Most aren't, though. It's just getting the guts to actually throw yourself out there that's the tricky part...

[MrRoboto75]

Easy, the people are broken. Go find better people.

I've tried but every time I go out I'm basically a ghost no one can see or interact with.

There is a magic word for that. "Hello." It's pretty much a handshake protocol where both parties agree to listen to each other for a little bit~

Alternatively, may want to lay off on the invisibility cloak.

But they brought their real friends, or wear headphones, or would rather access their real friends via phone/facebook.  Literally no one has any reason to interact with strangers.

[hector13]

There is a magic word for that. "Hello." It's pretty much a handshake protocol where both parties agree to listen to each other for a little bit~

Except for when they don't! Sometimes, people are just complete assholes and will completely, blatantly ignore you for no real reason.

Most aren't, though. It's just getting the guts to actually throw yourself out there that's the tricky part...

Depends on the situation. People on the way to and from places are generally disinclined toward communication from strangers.

Folk in shops are good to practice with, at least saying hello, as they are generally told to do at least that with everyone. Just a case of getting comfortable and reducing that anxiety.

[JoshuaFH]

I just feel I'm being excessively mean and angry lately, and I really don't like it, it feels like I just don't have control over myself. I feel like it must stem from my lack of satisfaction in life, but I worry that I'm growing too old and numb and bitter to ever get that satisfaction in the first place.

[Dunamisdeos]

I just feel I'm being excessively mean and angry lately, and I really don't like it, it feels like I just don't have control over myself. I feel like it must stem from my lack of satisfaction in life, but I worry that I'm growing too old and numb and bitter to ever get that satisfaction in the first place.

Ya wanna like, play a game or something? Hit me up on steam?

I got Monster Hunter World, FFXIV, buncha games. Lemme know. Bit of social activity, even if its online, might help you let off some steam.

For myself, I found that once I got away from certain social circles that I was involved in that constantly went our of their way to remind me of perceived failures, people totally liked being around me and I was actually a fairly personable fellow all along. Turns out those failures (not that I don't have other ones mind you) weren't my own, but I had gotten myself into the mode where I thought it was wrong to distance myself, and I was being gaslit into taking them on to myself.

You won't find a single happy person in their 50's who hasn't had to prune their lives this way in some fashion. You've always been quite pleasant on here, more so than most I'll even say. I think you have plenty of good things to offer.

[Yoink]

There is a magic word for that. "Hello." It's pretty much a handshake protocol where both parties agree to listen to each other for a little bit~

Except for when they don't! Sometimes, people are just complete assholes and will completely, blatantly ignore you for no real reason.

Have you tried substituting your boring old "hello" for a brash, shrill cry of "yo!"? Gotta communicate with such people on their level!

[Superdorf]

I like "Oi!" meself. ...Reading through Harry Potter a long time back left me with some weird vocal habits.
"Heyo!" works too.

[Arx]

Hit them with a hearty "хелло!". Or separate the figurative men from the boys by screaming your favourite phrase and seeing who responds.

[KateyKitsune]

I've been feeling mildly sad this month and I don't know why

[Naturegirl1999]

I've been feeling mildly sad this month and I don't know why

Could it maybe the same reason as my sadness? Namely that the humans with 95% of the money are destroying the planet in the name of profit? Well, this makes me more than merely mildly sad...sorry

[Imic]

Out of all the Panels I wanted to go to at World con yesterday, I made it to one. The worst one.

[Naturegirl1999]

What was it?