I am not the Weaver from simrepublic- I never even played that game. So M&F Weaver and that Weaver are not the same. I never bullied anyone in M&F, I was disliked and called a bully because I used a tactic people considered an exploit. And it wasn't night-time raids. We never did that either, in the exact meaning of the phrase.
To give you an idea of what was going on, we were a small unit, of maybe 1000 to 2000 soldiers, up against 10,000 or so. A lot of people were involved, and they had no clue what they were doing. We ran a strategy of isolating small units, and intercepting them, while it was most likely that those around them were too far away to assist- or in a few cases, we figured were asleep and would not notice in time. You have to understand that we were at war with 2 Realms, with a lot of people. Night-raids are impossible. We had a small patch of real-estate around Locust Court that was our killing field, where we caught people unescorted, and obliterated their units.
What later got us into trouble was the tactic/exploit we used where we'd engage one part of the army with throwaway troops, so that they cannot assist the other bunch that we committed against.
I do not enjoy hurting newbies. Yes, I did it a couple of times in M&F, when people come to take independent lands, and then act like dicks, but I still do not enjoy it. For me, any kind of conflict is just business. I do, however, enjoy beating up others who are conceited. Like in the Civil War, our opposition was all gung-ho happy, because they outnumbered us 10 to 1. When everyone did the math later and saw we killed 6000 of theirs for 1000 of ours, they all suddenly became very polite.
There is one other important characteristic that I need to share with people here, so wrong conclusions are not made. Weaver was chivalrous, kind, righteous, a good-guy all the way through, until the civil war. He was playing the role of a tyrant and an asshole for the purpose of the civil war, so that Martyn Lann would emerge as the new Imperator, and lead the remnants of the Imperium down a path that was not decadent like it used to be. It was the most roundabout purge of Imperial Nobility, and in that sense, yes, the House of Order is a secret police, as they were, after all, the executioner in the whole ordeal. For this reason, Weaver at the end of the Civil War, after he defeated the enemy armies, suicided on their remnants.