Alekhsandr/Ehndras/Maximilian Aurea, Arh'ala Azharod, Lysandra Gault-Moore, Magnus Decimus Aurelius Gault, Pestilence, Septima Luciana Thorbrandr, and Brynjar Thorbrandr II here. If you're from B12, please let me know via in-game message so I know I can trust you more easily. I have estates and troops to give but I've gotten multiple dickwads taking my fealty offers then attacking my settlements, burning buildings down it took me fucking WEEKS to build, stealing the little bit of gold I produce, enslaving my hard-earned peasants, and otherwise pissing me the hell off.
Join Rathgar or Tetsuyama and RP a bit. I was literally handed 3-4 estates right off the bat just for posting 2-3 short messages IC. the Archonian Dominate is looking for a diplomat even if you're brand new, and I suggested numerous other influential positions that will also be added. Hell, some of our brand-new newbie characters are Archons, which literally tell the entire country what to do. Ascalon rewards activity and good RP, and so does Arrakesh. Arrakesh just took a bunch of northern territory so we'll be properly able to give estates out now / very soon. I have 5 estates under Alekhsandr and I'd like to give 2-3 away but people aren't responding and I can't risk having to blow 200-300 hard-earned troops to reclaim from someone who goes dark after a few days.
The opportunities are there - you just have to be strategic. Its an RP game. I started off as an absolute nobody and carved my little empire.
Eventually, I hope to start a Dwarf-themed realm that's B12 friendly. If anyone else wishes to help, I could see where it'd be most possible to do so.
A LOT is going on. the Erstes Imperium just fractured and half the kingdoms are seceding because their leader is a raving lunatic IC and wants them to do so OOC because he has so much work and so many characters and the Imperium has grown so much that he wants things to happen and produce some more fun via !!WAR!!
For those of you who have had some bad opportunities, Tetsuyama is a good bet.
Also, you're misunderstanding what starting independently means. You're meant to find someone to swear fealty to, not wander around independently. We're way too late-game for that. If there were fewer players it'd be doable, but with so many new people we don't have much free land til they open the northwest. As SOON as I get a hint of that dark land opening, I'm starting a B12 expedition to forge our own kingdom there.
Piece of advice? Its all about finding the right leader. I almost ragequit Erstes/Eldamar because some dickbag rebelled ans tried to kill me as soon as I joined during my 1st week, but since I reported him to the Duke and King of Eldamar, they rewarded me with a few estates, a position on a holy order, and I'm now one of King Boras Kommagene's most trusted friends.
It IS all about who you know, but again... "Might & Fealty." The medieval era wasn't a friendly place, after all.