So, I'm switching states at the end of June, and that means saying an incredibly slurred form of 'God be with you' to my IRL D&D group. Considering that most of the members are also moving away, I've been kicking around the idea of doing an online game to keep us all together as we pursue our respective careers.
Of course, I'll probably open it up to the lovely B12 crew as well, since I always need more bodies to desecrate.
I'm most familiar with 3.5, and that's the version the crew is used to, but I know there's some jank in the rules that gets smoothed out in 5. I like reading character sheets, it's always fun to see what people build, but it would be kinda nice to not have to go: "I know savage species is an official rule book, and I know they think it's a LA+0, but I'm not letting you be a Baleen Whaleman*. No.", as I did last time I wanted people to go a little more crazy with their character designs. So I suppose I'm open to other editions, but I'm reluctant to leave my edition comfort zone. I know most of the jank, and I'm fairly used to the tricks needed to say 'Okay, you can do that, but here's the catch' instead of just plain 'No'.
I'm a bit torn for settings. I've got two that I've been wanting to run for a while now- one set in a world where the original heroes of prophecy done fucked up severely and most of the world is run by a dracolich and his private vampire court, and the other set on an island filled with mysterious ruins that a completely natural and not malevolent earthquake recently opened up to shipping travel. The former has more hooks that I can push for party cohesion, the latter allows a bit more freeform exploration and murder-bonering.
That all in mind, what kind of game do people recommend (and what advice do people have) for my first major dip into online-only DMing?
*For reference, the Baleen Whaleman starts Large, with +8 Str, +4 Dex, +4 Con, +4 Wis, and +9 Natural Armor. There are no penalties, unless you count being large as a penalty. I'm pretty sure someone was high when they penned in LA+0. Aside from a constant need to stuff one's face with krill, they don't really have much of a drop side, or a decent reason why they haven't conquered the world with their bulging whale pecs.