@Ghills:
From what I see, your arguments are that
1. "Mental disorder" is a stigmatizing word.
2. A mental disorder is different from a learning disability because mental disorders present "...irrational/hallucinate/etc..." as symptoms while learning disabilities are simply "this group of conditions makes people different". Additionally, a mental disorder is "a mental or bodily condition marked primarily by sufficient disorganization of personality, mind, and emotions to seriously impair the normal psychological functioning of the individual" while a learning disability is "a classification that includes several areas of functioning in which a person has difficulty learning in a typical manner, usually caused by an unknown factor or factors".
I agree with point 1--mental disorder tends to imply something is wrong. But that is not a bad thing; most people with a mental disorder agree that they deviate from the norm. Whether that is something that should be fixed depends on person to person. Someone with mild Asperger's symptom would not think that they need medication, while someone with severe anything definitely would.
As for point two... I believe that your first set of definitions are backwards. The first definition describes a small set of disorders (schizophrenia, psycotic people, etc), while the second definition pretty much includes every single mental disorder, or even disease, known to mankind. One could argue that people with schizophrenia are simply more paranoid than people without, and that makes them different. A person with binge eating disorder merely has a different eating habit.
The second definitions seem much more typical.
Let's look at the DSM's foreword on mental disorders:
Despite these caveats, the definition of mental disorder that was included in DSM-III and DSM-III-R is presented here because it is as useful as any other available definition and has helped to guide decisions regarding which conditions on the boundary between normality and pathology should be included in DSM-IV. In DSM-IV, each of the mental disorders is conceptualized as a clinically significant behavioral or psychological syndrome or pattern that occurs in an individual and that is associated with present distress (e.g., a painful symptom) or disability (i.e., impairment in one or more important areas of functioning) or with a significantly increased risk of suffering death, pain, disability, or an important loss of freedom. In addition, this syndrome or pattern must not be merely an expectable and culturally sanctioned response to a particular event, for example, the death of a loved one. Whatever its original cause, it must currently be considered a manifestation of a behavioral, psychological, or biological dysfunction in the individual. Neither deviant behavior (e.g., political, religious, or sexual) nor conflicts that are primarily between the individual and society are mental disorders unless the deviance or conflict is a symptom of a dysfunction in the individual, as described above.
Emphasis added. The definition of a mental disorder that I am using is in accord with that of the DSM's. ADHD seems to fall square into the definition! It is a significant syndrome, with symptoms of attention deficit, that occurs in an individual, impairs their ability to function normally (in the case of ADHD, to concentrate on a single task), and presumably causes distress, too, as compared to their peers people with ADHD tend to fall behind on academic prowess.
Do you think that my (and DSM's) definition of mental disorder do not include ADHD?
[this part is not actually related to the debate about survey questions]Pro tip: If you're not looking to pick a fight, a good first step is to not insist on your point of view when someone else points out your ignorance. Being ignorant is not a problem, insisting on it is.
But... I'm just stating my opinion. How is that picking a fight?
I strongly disagree, at least for ADHD. ADHD is one of the textbook mental disorders, in fact, and it fits pretty much every definition of a mental disorder you could think of. I did put ADHD as a separate entry from schizophrenia and mood disorders, and I think that is good enough. Can you convince me that ADHD is not an actual mental disorder and something else?
I can't really see where I'm insisting on my point of view. I am just saying that I disagree, with an implied "please inform me otherwise." Besides, you classify my viewpoint as
ignorance, and even go so far to chastise me for not immediately and unquestioningly accepting your superior viewpoint, then call me ignorant again. Not only is that insulting, it also makes it seem that
you are the one that is picking a fight. Besides, there's always the possibility that your viewpoint is not entirely correct. Also, I can't help but feel that you are being defensive. Did you get put on edge by my repeated use of the words "mental disorder?" :v
Finally, you are calling schizophrenic and bipolar people "raving psychopaths" and "crazies". Have you considered that maybe people that are schizophrenic don't want to be seen as raving psychopaths, and that people with bipolar disorder don't want to be called a "crazy" simply because their mood patterns are
different to the average, neurotypical person? Maybe they've struggled for many many years trying to get rid of the stereotype that people with schizophrenia are unapologetic raving psychopaths, just like ADHD people have. I think you are being hypocritical by not wanting ADHD to be lumped with other disorders because ADHD!=craziness, then disparaging other mental disorders as being crazy.
One last thing: I have never grouped ADHD with "retards" and "raving psychopaths." Hell, I've been even more politically correct than the DSM has been by not grouping attention-deficit disorder into "Disorders usually first diagnosed in infancy, childhood, or adolescence," where number 1 is literally "mental retardation" and number 2 is "learning disorders" including ADHD. In the survey, attention-deficit disorder is its own option for both the expansive and simplified versions, and so is schizophrenia and bipolar disease. I can't help but feel that you're making a mountain out of a perceived insult molehill here.
edit: I've been notified that ADHD is not a learning disorder and is actually separately classified under "attention deficit disorders". This probably does not invalidate any of my points, but the reader beware.