Link to the Obsidian forums: http://forums.obsidian.net/topic/73243-memorials-problem/
I have no words.
I'm with her, actually, I said earlier that I stopped reading the backer quotes because a disturbing portion of them were just rape/torture fantasies with a disturbing portion of those about various way of hurting women: just of the top of my head, "Broken branch" on the bridge to the main town with the passage about someone thrusting fingers into a wound in a woman's stomach and another called "the Vulture" in the first town inn who is torturing a family. This is exactly why we can't have nice things. A ton of the "fan"/"backer" stories are utterly fucked up, I am not surprised a ton more are offensive.
and yes, a "funny" poem about someone killing themselves because they slept with a transperson is utterly fucked up and offensive, if it was about someone killing themselves after sleeping with a black person it wouldn't even be a damn debate, it would be a boycott.
Someone should have dealt with this shit, before release, this all reminds me of this comic
http://gunshowcomic.com/471. I don't want other people's rape fetishes, hateful bullshit, or weird misogynistic torture fantasies in my damn rpg, even they donate 20$ for the privilege of getting to add this shit.