I'm well aware it's a different game than it was six years ago and that whales was building something else, I just don't understand why you are still going on about it. The dev direction isn't changing, and while I disagree with your impression of it, I get that it isn't the game you want. It's the game I want, the game a great many people want, and the reason more people keep joining up to continue the development direction in the way it's going is that not everyone feels "more realistic", "more detailed", and "more fun" are opposed. I can't believe I'd have to say that in the bay12games forum of all places.
Moreover, it's not like Kevin's some tin pot dictator. It's his branch. He's an asshole sometimes, but it isn't simple chance that his branch has been going strong this long... asshole or not, the game he's making is one that a lot of people want to play and contribute to, and he has a pretty distinct plan for it that continues to come together. Most of us enjoy working with him, that's why we do.
So, you can have a thread where you keep complaining about the little things you don't like the sound of in a game you freely admit you don't even play, or you can let the growing community of people who do play it talk about it and enjoy it I guess. I'd personally much rather talk about actual stuff happening with the game than bemoan some frankly trivial bugfix about when you can do your laundry.
(Edit to add: also, filthy wasn't added by Kevin. Oddly enough he's not the only person who contributes, many people have similar ideas for how the game should go. In fact it came out in 2016, which I believe would have been around the time Kevin wasn't active because he had a new baby.)