http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/news/news.html?in_article_id=512876&in_page_id=1770&ct=5 What I find most interesting about this situation is speculating on the nature of the Archbishop's personality.
Surely for him to have suggested something so outrageous then be completely shocked by the resultant storm of outrage he would have to have been conditioned to a certain mentality, a certain way of seeing things which has worked up to this point.
Consider: he has risen to the top post of his profession; there is no higher office for him than leader of the C of E. You don't rise to that level by accident, but by acting a certain way better than all others who act that way.
Then comes this trainwreck -- how? Most people rise to power by leveraging their core competence with Machiavellian calculation, good people skills, and a certain forcefulness of will. So how did this guy make such a terrible miscalculation?
My theory is that getting promoted at the Anglican Church isn't like rising through the ranks of General Motors or Microsoft. I think this guy became top dog not by being shrewd and calculating but by being pliable and accommodating.
People who accommodate generally try to avoid any kind of conflict whatsoever regardless of any potential consequences. They're also completely blindsided when people become angry at them.
I've known people like this personally and found them paradoxically untrustworthy: to even their closest friends they'll tell any lie and break any promise in order to avoid conflict. If you're friends with an accommodationist he or she simply hasn't been asked to betray you yet. They can't keep a date, a secret, a promise, sobriety, chastity, or your car keys if anyone else wills it otherwise.
Such a person can seem to be tolerant, patient, and forgiving due to great wisdom, perfect attributes for a church leader. Accommodationists are very easy to get along with and will promise you almost anything -- promises that vanish at the first sign of trouble. Accomodationists are loyal to no one but whomever is standing in front of them with a demand; they follow no moral code nor have any principles or point of honor that a choice to acquiesce will not override.
When finally faced with a situation where conflict is unavoidable, where every choice leads to the unthinkable, an accommodationist's circuits fry like the cliche' science fiction computer that handles Godel exceptions by exploding. The accommodationist will now and only now show anger, frightened confused anger, and you'll get questions like, "Why is everybody so mad at me? What did I do?"
Hence the surprise of the waylaid Archbishop, who heretofore had accommodated flawlessly. Lacking any serious moral code the accommodationist has no frame of reference to judge the magnitude and justness of the outrage of others. It simply appears, a sudden storm, a curse inexplicably visited on the hapless innocent by mean, unreasonable, angry people, and all he can think to do is wonder how it all went wrong.
I almost pity the poor Archbishop. He found a job that from all appearances was perfect for a pathological accommodationist. But like most who share his coping strategy he eventually stumbled upon a problem for which accommodation was a catastrophically poor solution. And he never saw it coming.