I think the main reason is that no-one wants their game to be associated with violence against women, that's why this stuff rarely gets ok'd to go into commerical games, the controversy of slaughtering a lot of women. Mowing down waves of guys doesn't create negative press.
Yeah, it's a pretty lame double-standard.
First off, not to the quoted post, but to the person who used a transsexual prostitute in a game of positive or even neutral transsexuals in gaming...WTF. Really? There is literally no argument to make against that because it is so ridiculously wrong that there's no way to form a counter point.
You really think that's a good representation of anyone?
"Well we gave you guys a hooker, what more do you want?" Because that isn't a stereotype at all and.. no there's no way to even argue it in detail. It is just 100% wrong.
Moving on..
I don't know where this certified 50% of protagonists in current gen games are female thing comes from because that is definitely not true. I certainly haven't seen a statistic for that posted here. Feel free to present one, because I want to see it.
As for LGBTQIA+ women, especially of color, or just women of color in general, yes they are even MORE underrepresented and represented in a negative light.
The reason violence against women is such a bad things in games is because of how casually it is treated in real life and the fact that men are physically more powerful than women. It's because of the huge rape and domestic violence statistics and the IDGAF attitude society has about the whole thing.
It's not a double standard. It is entirely different, and it trivializes those issues to state that.
There's a reason why you don't hit a woman irl even if she hits you. She's gonna make your face a little red, you could crack her jaw.
There are women, of course, that can knock a man out, but the natural strength difference is great enough and violence against women specifically by men is an issue enough, that no, it should not be prevalent in games. It has nothing to do with being a hypocrite, you are not gaming in a vacuum. And we definitely do not want to normalize violence against women for the male portion of the audience.
As for what a strong female protagonist in current games would be, I haven't played Mass Effect, but I hear Female Shepherd s quite awesome. Also Samus in Metroid Prime.