No. And neither does the average gamer.
The whole point of gaming and movies and fiction in general is to engage in fantasy. If you want real life, go outside.
If you want "realistic" combat simulation, why limit yourself to realistic portrayals of fighters? Why not simulate PTSD? What about pain? We could insert pain inducers in our haptic feedback controls. Instead of shaking, the controllers will inject you with something that makes you suffer and paralyzes your limbs. And let's do away with generic hit point systems, and just have everyone die in one hit. Or better yet, simulate amputation so when you get your legs blown off you get to sit around for an hour waiting and hoping for a medic to show up while you slowly and painfully bleed to death.
That would be so awesome, right? Realistic gameplay yay!
Oh, wait. That would be horrible and not fun at all.
Why exactly are we complaining about idealistic portrayals of people in our games?
Actually, no, I can't go outside and see Syria and Iraq - not easily and safely, anyway. The whole of reality is not available for us to see just by going outside. Can we see what's on the other side of the galaxy? Not right now, only what happened millions of years ago.
Why would the average gamer not want to see a woman soldier as she really is? Please explain more.
Real soldiers do not "die in one hit" from everything either. There are such things as "body armour" and "first aid". Before you rant about excessive realism, please learn what realism actually is.
The best thing about simulation is that it allows the person engaged to experience things without deadly real world consequences. Once the player has bled to death in the game, he is still alive in the real world. Even if pain or paralysis is synthesised in some way - not by injecting the person with drugs, of course - as soon as he leaves the simulation, it's all gone.
A simulation like this would be likely the best ever made - putting chicken hawks off war and teaching everyone of its horrors in a way that simply hearing accounts could never achieve. It would be one of the most significant works of art in human history. And I would donate hundreds of pounds to help create it.