On this topic... Does anyone have any tips for being able to do pushups despite a prior wrist injury? I had pretty bad tendinitis in both my wrists about ten years ago and the doctor warned me that tendons don't heal properly, the tendon tissue gets replaced with scar tissue which is weaker, and I have to be careful otherwise I can damage them even more. Every time I try to do pushups, my wrists end up being really sore afterwards, and if I keep going anyway, I hurt them again. Does anyone know any way around this?
I've wanted to build up a little upper body strength for a long time now, but I keep hitting obstacles. I don't care about being muscly or in great shape, but I can't even lift my own body weight. If I try to do a pull-up, I can't even get my feet off the ground. It's embarrassing. I know that women tend to have stronger legs than arms and all that, but I just hate being so weak. I have a very frail frame, small bones, weak joints. For reasons I won't get into here, I can't go to a gym or fitness center. And I'm against doing exercises that only use one small group of muscles. I know push-ups are great because they use your whole body, but I can never seem to manage them. (I mean, I can do them, but I always end up getting hurt.) My tai chi teacher is always emphasizing doing exercise that gets the whole body to work together, that you can have really strong muscles and still not be strong in the way that he teaches us to be. (His girlfriend, another teacher, is this tiny woman, way smaller than me. She can't do a single pushup, but she can easily toss anyone to the ground without any real effort, even people much larger and heavier and stronger than her, people who work out all the time and can lift a lot of weight, and no one can knock her over because she's so good at using her whole body for strength.)
My teacher gives a weekly course on strength training and conditioning, but when I try to go, I find that I can't do most of the exercises. Aside from my wrists, I also have old knee and ankle injuries that bother me all the time.
Sorry for the meandering nature of this post. I should have sorted my thoughts out in advance. I guess my question is, does anyone know any way for a 55-kilo (about 120 lbs), 170 cm (5'7") girl with extremely weak joints and connective tissues to build up any real amount of strength? Or have genetics doomed me to be weak forever?