One thing I'm particularly worried about is an effective segregation of gaming. Or at least a carving out of safe spaces and then stopping and pretending the work is done. Women friendly games and minority-focused conventions are fantastic, but not an excuse to keep excluding those groups from the wider gaming culture or continuing to make the mainstream of games exclusionary.
Woah woah woah. This is where I draw the line. I'm fine with everyone having a space for their game, their viewpoints, their gender, their sexuality.....
But acceptance in all of gaming? Is that even appropriate? Do we need equal representation in every single genre, every single game? Does Pitfall need a strong female protagonist, multiple gender identity playable characters? Does SmashTV need to stop from the murder and the mutilation and the bikini babes to address the world of multiple sexuality identities we have now?
I'd say progress IS progress. The fact there are even groups, subcultures and what not that are commercially viable within their own communities is success. I do not consider LGBT in everything, everywhere, the end goal. In that, that's the kind of dystopian PC nightmare a lot of people don't want, as much as they want everyone to have a seat at the table.
You basically need the entire world to be accepting of LGBT to have that kind of cultural assimilation. So saying you wish LGBT featured across the gaming landscape is putting the cart before the horse.
And besides. What you call backsliding is its own culture, its own viewpoint, its own way of life. I'd rather have all present, LGBT and your typical garden variety male WASP viewpoint, then everything crushed and compacted into one-size-fits-all-gaming.
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Let me put it this way. I hope we reach a point where, in a random sampling of your average gamer, presenting them a game made by a woman, featuring a female/LGBT protagonist or featuring an LGBT theme will not immediately lead to snickers, jeers and someone being called a fag. That's a worthy goal and encapsulates the "a seat for everyone at the table" ideology.
But making it so no game can be made that doesn't offend any one of those groups on some level (even the offense of omission!), that includes every one of these groups somewhere in the game? No. That's not "a seat for everyone at the table." That's "my way or the highway."