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Can't do my Homework
« on: December 01, 2013, 01:57:08 pm »

I'm sitting here, trying to do my homework, and... I can't. I literally can't. I just can't make myself do it. My mind skitters away, and seeks anything else to focus on. Even getting rid of all that, I just end up staring into space instead. I spent most all of yesterday doing the same thing, and got barely anything done. Does anyone have any advice?
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Re: Can't do my Homework
« Reply #1 on: December 01, 2013, 03:17:58 pm »

Shut the internet down, close everything but the blank page and stare at it until you have nothing else to do but start working. You don't need a drink from the fridge and nothing on TV is worth watching. Just write it. Start with one word and put another after it, repeat until finished.
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Re: Can't do my Homework
« Reply #2 on: December 01, 2013, 03:19:22 pm »

Do what I do when I really can't do homework. I give myself half an hour or so of doing the work then half an hour or an hour of doing whatever I want, then when that hour/half an hour is over, go back to doing homework and then rinse and repeat. Always helps me do my school work effectively.

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Re: Can't do my Homework
« Reply #3 on: December 01, 2013, 03:25:11 pm »

This homework is on the internet, so that's not an option. it doesn't really matter though, I can keep from doing anything else effectively, but I still can't do my homework. I just end up staring at it blankly.
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Re: Can't do my Homework
« Reply #4 on: December 01, 2013, 03:37:10 pm »

I highly doubt any advice can help you then. If you staunchly refuse to do something and pass it off as your brain rebelling (I'm physically unable to stop being lazy!), no amount of internet compatriots can convince you otherwise. Advice is kinda only helpful to those open to it, and mine would be shut up and work right now, forget any strategies just do it already, but you'll probably somehow convince yourself not to anyway
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Re: Can't do my Homework
« Reply #5 on: December 01, 2013, 03:47:21 pm »

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Re: Can't do my Homework
« Reply #6 on: December 01, 2013, 03:48:58 pm »

Some things I've done when I've been in a situation like this -

Imagined I was a slave with an aggressive master watching from nearby, one that would beat the -crud- out of me if I didn't get the job done, done fast, and done right.

Imagined this task was part of something vital that I really cared about happening (for me that's some sort of scientific advancement - but this is imagination - anything's fine to imagine if it motivates you, from imaginary advancement in VR video gaming to imaginary recruitment of the world's greatest sports team to absolutely anything) and that by getting this job done I was helping a portion of that job I really cared about get done.

Imagined I was teaching someone I liked and who really, really wanted to do what I was doing how to do this thing that I couldn't get started with, and it was their enthusiasm and interest that helped me keep mine focused on 'teaching' them the task by showing them how to do it, step by step as I actually got it done.

Imagined someone I loved was going to die if I didn't get this task done - either this task would directly save them from something deadly or torturous (my task was somehow like surgery to heal them from a deadly wound), or it would directly prevent them from getting into a deadly situation (my task is somehow like fixing broken brakes on their car, they're going to get into an accident if I don't get my job done), or that someone had kidnapped them and me getting this task done was the ransom.

Imagined I was competing with someone else, someone I really, really wanted to race or wanted to show up, and this task was what we were racing to do - and I really wanted to win.

Good luck!
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Re: Can't do my Homework
« Reply #7 on: December 01, 2013, 04:25:21 pm »

I highly doubt any advice can help you then. If you staunchly refuse to do something and pass it off as your brain rebelling (I'm physically unable to stop being lazy!), no amount of internet compatriots can convince you otherwise. Advice is kinda only helpful to those open to it, and mine would be shut up and work right now, forget any strategies just do it already, but you'll probably somehow convince yourself not to anyway

No offense, but "You suck and you'll always suck, give up and die" isn't very helpful.

Some things I've done when I've been in a situation like this -

Imagined I was a slave with an aggressive master watching from nearby, one that would beat the -crud- out of me if I didn't get the job done, done fast, and done right.

Imagined this task was part of something vital that I really cared about happening (for me that's some sort of scientific advancement - but this is imagination - anything's fine to imagine if it motivates you, from imaginary advancement in VR video gaming to imaginary recruitment of the world's greatest sports team to absolutely anything) and that by getting this job done I was helping a portion of that job I really cared about get done.

Imagined I was teaching someone I liked and who really, really wanted to do what I was doing how to do this thing that I couldn't get started with, and it was their enthusiasm and interest that helped me keep mine focused on 'teaching' them the task by showing them how to do it, step by step as I actually got it done.

Imagined someone I loved was going to die if I didn't get this task done - either this task would directly save them from something deadly or torturous (my task was somehow like surgery to heal them from a deadly wound), or it would directly prevent them from getting into a deadly situation (my task is somehow like fixing broken brakes on their car, they're going to get into an accident if I don't get my job done), or that someone had kidnapped them and me getting this task done was the ransom.

Imagined I was competing with someone else, someone I really, really wanted to race or wanted to show up, and this task was what we were racing to do - and I really wanted to win.

Good luck!

See, now this is more helpful. Thank you! I'll try this out.
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Re: Can't do my Homework
« Reply #8 on: December 01, 2013, 04:26:15 pm »

I highly doubt any advice can help you then. If you staunchly refuse to do something and pass it off as your brain rebelling (I'm physically unable to stop being lazy!), no amount of internet compatriots can convince you otherwise. Advice is kinda only helpful to those open to it, and mine would be shut up and work right now, forget any strategies just do it already, but you'll probably somehow convince yourself not to anyway

No offense, but "You suck and you'll always suck, give up and die" isn't very helpful.

That is exactly the opposite of what I told you to do. It's like you managed to skip the advice in there entirely. Amazing.
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« Reply #9 on: December 01, 2013, 04:40:24 pm »

I highly doubt any advice can help you then. If you staunchly refuse to do something and pass it off as your brain rebelling (I'm physically unable to stop being lazy!), no amount of internet compatriots can convince you otherwise. Advice is kinda only helpful to those open to it, and mine would be shut up and work right now, forget any strategies just do it already, but you'll probably somehow convince yourself not to anyway

No offense, but "You suck and you'll always suck, give up and die" isn't very helpful.

That is exactly the opposite of what I told you to do. It's like you managed to skip the advice in there entirely. Amazing.

Your style of giving advice was more the reverse psychology format - try reading it as if you'd never seen it before, and didn't know what you meant -

"I highly doubt any advice can help you then."  - Sounds like OP cannot be helped.

"If you staunchly refuse to do something and pass it off as your brain rebelling (I'm physically unable to stop being lazy!), no amount of internet compatriots can convince you otherwise." - If this is what is going on, then nothing any of us can say could help OP

"Advice is kinda only helpful to those open to it"  - Explanation of why OP cannot be helped

"and mine would be shut up and work right now"  - This is FFS's advice, to shut up and work.

"forget any strategies just do it already"  - this is also FFS's advice, however I dare say it's of dubious value for someone who has said what OP said about how his mind works.

"but you'll probably somehow convince yourself not to anyway"  - further support of the 'nothing any of us can say could help OP' concept.

So I agree with both OP and FFS - there was advice given, but (assuming reverse psychology isn't a great solution this time) 'No offense, but "You suck and you'll always suck, give up and die" isn't very helpful.' isn't a crappy interpretation of what was actually said by FFS in its entirety, even if it's not completely true and wasn't what FFS completely intended to say.
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Re: Can't do my Homework
« Reply #10 on: December 01, 2013, 04:41:34 pm »

Thank you for that. I will work on being better-communicative in the future.
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Re: Can't do my Homework
« Reply #11 on: December 01, 2013, 08:53:34 pm »

FFS, there's such a skill as 'being tactful'. It's a survival mechanism that makes you seem less of an asshole, which means that you insult fewer vengeful psychopaths and scorn fewer women during your day-to-day life. You might want to learn it.

It may seem obvious to some of us that "shut up and work" is the only way to start working, but that's only AFTER you've solved the actual problem behind procrastination. The problem in question is that "shut up and work" doesn't work unless you have some motivation to do the work: with nothing to back up the arguments of the work-eager part of your mind, your internal dialogue will always end with the lazy part of the mind winning.
The trick is getting motivated. Really, genuinely motivated, motivated enough to give you a really good argument in favor of working rather than doing a myriad other productive and beneficial things, like watching cats on Youtube.

One of the ways to get motivated, the one that worked for most self-made men, is to make a commitment. Commitment is pretty much your willpower applied to a statement to make it an internal absolute; an unyielding dogma, so to say, that your work-eager part can use to bludgeon the lazy parts into submission. The problem is that without a lot of willpower in the first place, it won't work, and most people have that strange tendency to derive their willpower from motivation rather than the other way around.

Another is to turn work into a part of your schedule and social life, though that works better with exercise than with homework.

Another yet, the easiest and most frequently used one by far, is to recognize that you're unhappy with your current state of life, then let the society trick you into believing that you'll feel happy once you've reached some sort of socially acceptable goal, like "high status", "new clothes" or "paying job". In other words, give up your youthful pride, sell out and adopt the consumerist values. It won't make your life meaningful, or happy, or worthwhile, but it will get you working. That is why, say, barely educated consumerist ladies or gentlemen without a single rational thought in their heads manage to claw out a better GPA than a bright, yet unmotivated geek.

In any case, lack of motivation is a long-term problem with a suitably long-term solution. Short-term solution is much simpler.

Angle, your problem right now is being overwhelmed with the amount of homework you're about to do.
I have the same problem. My solution is to forget that I have to do ALL of the homework and to tell myself that I'd "only answer this first question". It's way easier to do "just one question" if you don't have to accept the responsibility of answering ten more questions after that.
By the time I am done with that first question, I am either as lazy as before but satisfied with myself, or hooked and willing to continue working on the second question, and then third, and so on.
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« Reply #12 on: December 01, 2013, 09:13:19 pm »

I can't help anyone and am taking it out at random toward people on this forum which is not fair so now is a good time for a break. Sorry for taking over your thread, Angle, and sorry for being untactful and sorry for not apologizing before. Please understand people here do want to help, hopefully, even if they're assholes sometimes.
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« Reply #13 on: December 01, 2013, 10:10:58 pm »

I can't help anyone and am taking it out at random toward people on this forum which is not fair so now is a good time for a break. Sorry for taking over your thread, Angle, and sorry for being untactful and sorry for not apologizing before. Please understand people here do want to help, hopefully, even if they're assholes sometimes.

I do understand.  Please note my post to you did not include any instructions other than 'reread as if you didn't know your intention'.  In particular, I didn't tell you to go away.  And don't feel bad about the hijacked thread, that'll fix itself shortly, it usually does.

I will challenge what you say though, FFS, when you say that "[You] can't help anyone".  Take a break if you want a break, if a break is best for you.  But you're more good than bad, I say.  Your being on the forum and interacting as you please is more positive than negative for others - and I hope for yourself too.
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Re: Can't do my Homework
« Reply #14 on: December 01, 2013, 10:40:15 pm »

I think we should all just calm down.

On a question-related note however, just think of how shitty you life will be when you have no idea what you're doing because you didn't do the homework. If you take any advanced math class and your not a genius if you fail to do the homework you will be entirely lost. (that's just one example there are many classes that as you get older the homework is pretty much mandatory if you want to understand the material.)
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