Your own experience of corporality isn't (the possibility of a separate soul, aside, maybe) privileged to experience these things specially.
Spaghettification may act along your length(/breadth/thickness, or whatever attitude you go into the effect) equally, rather than like (say) being strung between horses by rope and pulled apart by your extremities, but I don't know if that'd be worse.
The spreading of feeling (at least unless feeling can't properly reach your head, even) of stress across your entire body, or perhaps like Socrates and his hemlock, the effect working up slowly up from the feet if you're subjecting yourself to a 'small' black hole with a more severe build up of gradient (which are the ones you aren't going to 'survive' entry to) might be less painful than concentrated tugs in specific places. And with the atoms of the stress-sensing neurones being tugged as much as the body parts they are supposed to be sensing the stress of (by one interpretation), I'm not sure it'd be felt anything like the same.
And, except on the edge of a particularly sharp gradient (sharpness and inexorableness aside) you won't experience your body experiencing slowed time and drawn out whatever-effect-you'll-suffer. You may be seen to be slowly damaged, whether or not the last thing seen of you is a greasy smear hovering just outside the event horizon, red-shifting into eternity (or lifetime of that horizon), but from your perspective it happens as quickly enough.
In fact, with feet-first entry, I'd imagine even the most sophisticated of g-suits would be unable to prevent your blood pooling in your feet, reducing the oxygen to your brain and you lose consciousness, long before the structural integrity of your body is exceeded. Head-first, the (normally gravity-assisted movement of blood away from your brain would be impeded, with obvious repercussions. Laid flatwise, as on a classic rocket blast-off/re-entry couch, you might last longer until the pooling towards your back gives the same effect. Aside from/additionally to any asphyxiation effects due to pressures on lungs, larynx, etc.
Or so it seems to me. They do say that a huge black hole is the one you want to fall into, with the gravity gradient not distorting quite so tightly around it, but even then getting to the point where you're part in the event horizon is going to be beyond your possible experience.
Not pain, at that level, other than from mundane acretion-disc collisions, extreme radiation (other likely 'mundane' killers, unless you choose a hole that is not still digesting other feedstuffs), etc. But it'd be like that Star Trek TNG episode where Picard is stuck in a pocket-universe 'copy' of rapidly decreasing size (anything beyond the rapidly approaching limit of the observable universe does not exist, has never existed!) and when the ship's computer is asked to explained the depressurisation of Ten Forward it explains that there is a 'design flaw' of the ship having had no forward bulkhead.
What you might/could experience once you're entirely beyond the EH, assuming you were capable of experiencing it... that's a question and a half. It'd be beyond anything seen with Dave Bowman (2001), Dr Ellie Arroway (Contact), even Jack Harkness (Doctor Who/Utopia) was seen to see. And if there's any accuracy in the internals of The Black Hole (1979), Event Horizon (1997) or Interstellar (2014) I'd be surprised (though the externals of the latter are likely to be not too Hollywoodised after consultation with Kip Thorne.
No, I probably wouldn't choose to fall into a black hole, but long before that opportunity I'd expect some other form of mortality to claim me, anyway, even if it's just old age. I aint going to worry too much about it until it happens.