1) Polished surface vs lasers.
No. Space is not empty. There are tiny particles of dust, particles of ice, and small rocks out there. Those will cause abrasion on such surfaces, leaving them less than perfectly smooth. That will leave areas where the laser's light will not be perfectly reflected, causing ablation, then penetration. These tiny scratches would be all over every centimeter of the ship after just a few months in space.
1a) Heavily mass-sheilded ship vs everything else
This means the ship will be very heavy. There are structural limits to what building materials can handle. Simply because there is substantially less gravity in space, does not magically remove inertia from the equasion. This means that the heavier the ship is, even with some super new-fangled drive tech, turning it quickly will rip the ship apart. This means that big heavy ships will move like big heavy ships.
2) biological resources as reason for war.
Possible causes:
Technologically superior species wants a 2 for 1 deal. Takes technologically inferor species, and forcibly implants cybernetics into their brains, and turns them into slaves. This destroys the rival culture, provides wetware for advanced servitors that are easier to control that pure software intelligences, and gives the old "our race is the bestest!" spot a good stroking all at once.
While potentially habitable planets seem to be plentiful in our galaxy (according to Kepler survey), planets with compatible or desirable flora/fauna may be a significantly smaller fraction of those. Given the number of useful organic compounds our own planet produces (basically ALL of our medicines we now use with the exception of the wholly synthetic ones-- and even those, if you consider that humans make them.) a technologically superior speces may wish to capitalize on such resources if they are biologically compatible with that biosphere. The native inhabitants would naturally be at odds with this, as the exploitation of their biosphere could be highly detrimental to them and their culture. See colonialism.
A large and powerful civilization might have very decadent tastes in entertainment or companionship. Exotic pets may be a thing. Humans as dangerous exotic pets could be a thing, right along with lions, tigers, and bears.