You know, looking at the conversation threads, I'm just not seeing it - Sure, there's lots of discussion about games that are still in development, but a lot of those are actively being played despite that - continuous development and open alphas is a big thing in a lot of modern indie games (DF, CDDA, KSP), and people are actually for real playing those, not just speculating. There's plenty of speculation too, but a good chunk of that is about sequels in threads about games that already were released and discussed to death in the months that followed.
There's also a lot of discussion of classic games that were released a long time ago, giving people a chance to discover them anew.
So let's look at the front page:
Planetside 2: Released
Cataclysm: Playable, Continuos Development
Space Station 13: Released, Continuos Development
THANCS: Released
Jagged Alliance 2: Released
Europa Universalis IV: Released
The Sims 2: Released
Pokemans (Mostly black and white discussions at the moment): Released
Miriani: Playable, Continuos Development
Lugdunon: Playable Alpha
Of the first ten threads, not counting this one, two are arguable Alphas, and both are people having discussions about a game they are
actively playing - A quick glance shows that this trend seems to continue well into the forum history.
So what, exactly, is the issue? Is the OP simply not interested in playing any of the games people are discussing playing? Is he opposed to opening conversations about a game he IS playing? I'm honestly not sure, but
Now, it seems that most of the conversation is taken by games not yet out.
doesn't feel like an accurate statement in the slightest.