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Simplicity
« on: October 16, 2013, 09:26:56 am »

One question. When does one get the feeling of actually knowing themselves?
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Re: Simplicity
« Reply #1 on: October 16, 2013, 09:32:10 am »

By being yourself. Often.

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Re: Simplicity
« Reply #2 on: October 16, 2013, 02:27:42 pm »

To truly know yourself, you must climb to the fiery peak of Mount Doom and pull from a great stone atop this treacherous summit and the legendary sword of the Noldor, and with this sword you must slay the mighty dragon deep within...

...actually I'm going to go out on a limb and guess you're in middle school? High school? Shit makes more sense when you get a little older.
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Re: Simplicity
« Reply #3 on: October 16, 2013, 03:01:48 pm »

You hit a point in your life where you're tired of doubting who you are, and so you decide who you are.
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Re: Simplicity
« Reply #4 on: October 16, 2013, 03:51:00 pm »

To truly know yourself, you must climb to the fiery peak of Mount Doom and pull from a great stone atop this treacherous summit and the legendary sword of the Noldor, and with this sword you must slay the mighty dragon deep within...

...actually I'm going to go out on a limb and guess you're in middle school? High school? Shit makes more sense when you get a little older.
18 years old, went through a pretty verbally violent divorce in Middle school and the parent I went with force me into working his uuh... Black work? And am basically socially handicapped because sometimes I do not realize when i'm warned about things, or what to keep in my mouth. Jokes for the most of the time, but I "BOOH"d a girl with that Beep-Hearing thingy.

By being yourself. Often.

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You hit a point in your life where you're tired of doubting who you are, and so you decide who you are.
Dos. Why is it so hard to keep in mind to act like the 'Bigger person'?

And towarts Nenjin: I've had my times of burns for my choice and value of friends, this time by school.
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Re: Simplicity
« Reply #5 on: October 16, 2013, 04:31:30 pm »

That's the point though. Good or bad, sink or swim, you choose who you are and live with the consequences. If that means you like to associate with less than reputable people, fuck anyone that isn't on board with that plan.

And if you decide later on you don't want to associate with those people anymore, then fuck anyone who isn't on board with that plan.

There are times when weakness and doubt are all people need to undercut you. And there are times when all it really takes is the belief that you know, that convinces other people. I led a life surrounded by troublemakers, hooligans and punks. People feared I'd end up dead in a gutter by 20. But I owned my choices, proved them all wrong and still kept the circle of friends I felt drawn to. School used to give me a ton of shit about missing class, and I said "Tough shit, that's how I'm going to roll." Who graduated despite all that? Me. When I got criticized by the dean of my college for "looking like I came in out of the wild", did I let that bug me? No. I went on to do better in that class than anyone, despite looking, in her opinion, like I was "homeless." (It's called not having a car in the dead of winter, you stupid bitch.) I went on to graduate with my degree, despite the presumption that I was just another statistic waiting to happen.

So yeah. Make your choice. Own your choice. Realize it's your choice to make or change. And let the rest of the world sit and spin. Especially school. It's such an infinitesimal part of who you really are, or will become, don't let school administrators get in your head.

Just be a freakin' adult about it, and really, what are they going to say that has any power over you? Adults don't give a fuck, in the end, what other adults think. Start thinking like an adult, and you'll suddenly find you don't really give a fuck either.
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Cautivo del Milagro seamos, Penitente.
Quote from: Viktor Frankl
When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.
Quote from: Sindain
Its kinda silly to complain that a friendly NPC isn't a well designed boss fight.
Quote from: Eric Blank
How will I cheese now assholes?
Quote from: MrRoboto75
Always spaghetti, never forghetti

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Re: Simplicity
« Reply #6 on: October 16, 2013, 11:44:59 pm »

In general terms:

Enlightenment comes from experience, and  the willingness to learn from it. If you start doing stupid shit and don't learn anything from it, then you never get anywhere. My freshman roommate was stoned out of his mind on whatever he could get his hands on, somehow managed to make a 0.5 GPA, was put on probation. Spent the next semester doing the exact same shit... dropped out, got a dead-end job, never went back. Because he didn't learn to stop doing stupid shit.

The basic gist applies to anything... if you know you've messed up somehow (told a bad joke, were cruel to someone, slept through a final exam, ran a stop sign and almost wrecked your car), take some time when you have time to think, and just think a minute on what you could have done differently. Don't dwell or anything, but learn to make better judgement calls ahead of time. It comes with practice.

Also at a certain point you just start chilling the fuck out naturally once the teenage hormonal bullshit dies down. Hard to see then from now, but it does happen. That makes it easier to think more clearly about you and what you want.
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Re: Simplicity
« Reply #7 on: October 18, 2013, 12:09:33 pm »

You hit a point in your life where you're tired of doubting who you are, and so you decide who you are.

Or you go the opposite way and let other people decide it for you. (This is not a good thing.)

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Re: Simplicity
« Reply #8 on: October 21, 2013, 08:30:48 pm »

the parent I went with force me into working his uuh... Black work?


What's black work?


I recommend meditation btw. Just exist in the moment for a little time each day. Works wonders.
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« Reply #9 on: October 22, 2013, 06:28:18 am »

He probably means work where he doesn't pay taxes or anything. It could be as innocent as working in a small shop and getting paid cash, or dealing in drugs or whatever :p
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Re: Simplicity
« Reply #10 on: October 28, 2013, 09:35:13 am »

Am I the only person who just does?* I think if you spend to much time worrying about "who" you are, you're being a bit narcissistic. Something we're all entitled to, to some extent. :P

*This isn't true, I worry about what I am all the time
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