Yeah, it was just a misunderstanding Insanity, no worries. I apologize if it comes out as that but I'm not being disrespectful or holding anything against anyone. Every time I hear that word "disdain" it ticks me off, because thats not how we feel or treat others. Like right now, Hugo needed to trade iron for obsidian, Gold didn't need obsidian, nor did he have a lot of iron so he told me he wouldn't mind going miles out to just make a trade with someone. Again, Hugo doesn't show aggression towards us, or disdain as you'd put it, and he doesn't want to cause issues. He wants to simply have fun and play a game, and because he needed help he could ask for it. That's all I want and as for the "safety" of the things you build in Gold's place is there as long as it adheres to his rules, but it's okay if people don't accept that as the way Dumathoin is run. Again, everyone has a different opinion on this which brings me to my next topic.
The voting; it's okay to have votes in some situations. I don't feel this is one of them, as it separates the bay12 members and forces people to either leave due to the majority vote or accept that some want other things and split up. I think you may be able to solve that with just different threads and checking out how things are with one another. Again a voice chat would be more simple in this instance which is why I'm trying to get people on the idea of how this forum posting is obsolete versus the voice chat in these situations. No communication barriers, no guessing how things come across due to being able to actually hear someone, and no breaks from the reason we're all here..to have fun and game with friends.
" None of us want to kick you or Gold out, nobody ever said that"
I didn't suggest that anyone said that, I suggested that he felt something was taken from him unrightfully and I completely agree. Said from others before my post, CivCraft isn't run to where you can just setup a place in an "abandoned" zone. That still took time to build and they took that time to have something to call home, forever or until Civcraft resets the map.
"How could I stay? You've outright said bay12'ers and I are untrustworthy, not worth anyone's time. If this is what you call respect, I hope I never truly upset you"
See it's unnecessary and rude comments like this that are hard to even work with, least I don't see how anyone WOULDN'T take offense to that. It feels as though I'm speaking with a few mature people and every now and then someone chimes in with something so ridiculous that it's impossible to even retort without aggression. I never said you or anyone was untrustworthy, so that's a blatant lie. I don't trust anyone, that's a personal issue with myself but I never said it's because of others. You're all not untrustworthy people, I just don't trust anyone in general. Not worth anyone's time? Really? Out of all my posts, THATS what you got from what I stated? Again, it feels as though someone is skimming through and not actually getting the message, this is why I like talking on a mic...not through words on a screen. What I call respect is something this comment CLEARLY does not show, and I guarantee you 99% of others would feel the same in my shoes. Misquoting someone is a highly offensive thing so unless I clearly state "you're untrustworthy and not worth anyone's time", please for the love of god don't assume it. -.- I can see why Gold doesn't respond on here now, we're having a great time playing games until the "forums posts" topic comes up and then its just a major headache.
If you leave, that's fine (not saying that I'm giving permission or to sound grateful that people are going) just that theres no harm done in that,but just remember, its not because of Golds side the we couldn't work this out together...it's just the opposite and that stays with the entire group that moves with it.
Almost forgot, sorry about missing what you stated in game but I just dont read half the things that pop up (I'm not used to it and all of my friends talk to me through mics), so it generally gets left to being on the side of my screen that I dont look at. If you ask how I could miss it, it's because I'm color blind and when mining it all looks the same lol, and I also have 65" screen, so its not exactly right in front of my face...its the other side of my wall. Again, apologies for that but at least I saw Hugos whisper to me, so the different color helped out on that.