I vaguely remember the question of marriage age came up earlier in this thread, and the answer was late teens/early twenties. Betrothal can happen much earlier, but I don't think it should in our case. The longer we hold off actually picking, but remain active in courting potential wives, the more favors we can draw from their families.
Also, rereading the most recent post, I noticed the Sekhon is building up militarily. If he does something silly while we are away, he could cause headaches for us. I'd at the very least ask when he thinks the conscripts he is training will be ready to play a role in the conflict, and advise him not to do anything to brazen or aggressive until we are around to spin things to the Court. The second part might not be unnecessary, as he is no fool, and it could come across as smug, scolding, or patronizing, but I would like to hear about his goals for and thoughts on the force he is amassing. Perhaps we can talk him into making a deal with our vassal Sir Bepher; He can bring his experience and our boat to Sekhon's opperation, and in exchange, Sekhon can put an agreed upon number of recruits under Bepher's command, strengthening our Vassal and in turn strengthening us.
Also, acording to the last post, it dosn't look like we are bringing our Bodyguard or our Toady, and we don't have plans set in stone to make them useful while we are gone. Perhaps see if they can get in on helping/supervising Sekhon with the amassing of forces as well?