Wing snake staff (of) control flesh should work, i made an iron ring that controlled fire using a similar method in the original.
Control word allowed you to control every other MATERIAL used in the creation on the original.
Thus an iron ring of control fire would control both iron and fire, did you ever try to control iron with it? And controlling wings and that stuff wouldnt work there since it only allowed you to control materials and certain concepts.
Either ways, final combo of items:
Amulet/Necklace of Control what im thinking of: Control everything anywhere!
Ring of Dispel What Im Thinking of: Dispel any spells anywhere!
Ring of Drain What im thinking of: Drain life and magic and strenght and speed and lots more of stuff anywhere! (This is specially useful combined with the Necklace, drain will to make controlling easier!)
Make those three with a cool body, good stats and some other useful stuff (Living armor that can cast spells enhanced though will and words, weapons that inject weird stuff like ´´Liquid Crystal`` on enemy bodies) a cool base (For example a living tower or something) and some guards (Since armor and tower are living, if you know word to increase will you can make them control stuff too, and thus you would be able to control a infinite number of creatures, just imagine: You control two creatures. Those two creatures control four. Those four control eight. Since you control the two that control the four, you can order those two to order those four to order those eight to attack enemies) and you have won.