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shadenight123

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Anorexia Problems
« on: July 09, 2013, 11:19:29 am »

...not mine, mind you. I'm perfectly in my healthy 'overweight slightly' category natural to any man who enjoys good food and doesn't give a damn as long as the scale doesn't settle above the one hundred kilos.
(Pleasantly round, all right?)
My female cousin on the other hand...

Well, yeah. She's got it bad. It's been years now, and recently we are reaching the 'critical' and 'final' point.
Mind you, her anorexia is treated in her family as some sort of 'sickness that doesn't exist because it would make the neighbors talk if we did something about it'. She has already been hospitalized a few times in the last months, and as of a few days ago, she's receiving 'food' through the drip at home...
Her daily schedule is something out of a horror film.
She wakes up, goes walking a few kilometers and then returns home. She eats only raw meat. And by raw I mean she frigging sucks on the dead brains of animals
If you haven't retched by now, good. We're not done yet. She tends to 'pick' strands of grass or leaves from bushes as she walks, and she eats those too.
Mind you, this is NOT exaggerating or whatever. It's been seen, it's been done and she still does it. This isn't a 'she retches nine hours a day' this is exactly what she does.
She then proceeds to take the sun for something like 4 hours during the lunch times.

Oh, and of course her weight is in the forties, and she's 29 years old. She no longer has her menses, and her bones are already starting to naturally break on her own.
The fact she resembles a walking mummified corpse does no good.

The things tried to 'get her out of it' included (and obviously didn't work)
1) talking to her about it.
2) having someone else talk to her about it.
3) ask her why she was doing this and to stop it. (Her answer was, quite frankly... 'if it happens (that she dies) it happens')
4) she isn't doing this 'for death' however. She's doing this for some sort of strange reason about 'living forever if she eats little every day and drinks plenty of water'.

She actually drinks coffee to remain awake in the nights, for some reason she probably knows. (something about going to sleep only when there are visitors in the house)
Unfortunately, due to the mentality of her mother of 'the neighbors might talk' (they don't actually have neighbors, being up in a villa in the outskirts of the city) they haven't interned her yet. So whenever she's sick she just 'signs' herself out of the hospital.

The question is thus the following: what can be done to get her out of this horrible thing that is literally killing her?
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Re: Anorexia Problems
« Reply #1 on: July 09, 2013, 12:18:43 pm »

Get her to a doctor. There are people who make careers out of helping people like her. She is mentally unwell. If her family really thinks that getting her to a doctor is worse than this continuing...

I'm sure other people will post with things you can do to maybe help, but a doctor is the most straightforward option.
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Re: Anorexia Problems
« Reply #2 on: July 09, 2013, 01:07:08 pm »

This is going to sound stupid, but...

Shock treatment. Find documentaries, videos, pictures of anorexia victims and show them to her. Probably won't work, though, if she refused to abandon this after talking. And yeah, she seems mentally unstable, to not say batshit insane. Take her to the doctor's and show her parents the pictures.

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Re: Anorexia Problems
« Reply #3 on: July 09, 2013, 01:26:15 pm »

Shock only works on casual disbelieving anorexics. Consuming only blood and grass is far past anorexia.
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Re: Anorexia Problems
« Reply #4 on: July 09, 2013, 08:50:51 pm »

I don't think this is Anorexia this sounds like something a lot worst, go get her a doctor ASAP.
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Re: Anorexia Problems
« Reply #5 on: July 09, 2013, 08:53:24 pm »

Yeah, doctor.
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Re: Anorexia Problems
« Reply #6 on: July 09, 2013, 08:57:15 pm »

Had anorexia, had friends with anorexia, wasn't anything like like this--"living forever" is an extremely unusual motivation (it's almost always attached to body image).

Institutionalization might be a very appropriate option if you don't get results from a doctor, and trust me, I don't say that lightly.  She's way surpassed the "harm to herself" requirement.
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Re: Anorexia Problems
« Reply #7 on: July 09, 2013, 09:13:48 pm »

She's way surpassed the "harm to herself" requirement.
From the description, I don't know how she's not dead, let alone harmed.

All of this extreme malnutrition is probably not doing wonders for her mental stability either.
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Re: Anorexia Problems
« Reply #8 on: July 09, 2013, 10:19:27 pm »

She's way surpassed the "harm to herself" requirement.
From the description, I don't know how she's not dead, let alone harmed.

All of this extreme malnutrition is probably not doing wonders for her mental stability either.
I hope he means kg, not lb.
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Re: Anorexia Problems
« Reply #9 on: July 14, 2013, 02:41:52 am »

this may sound odd but if you don't mind attention
you could always go to the media nothing makes people act quicker to solve a problem than everyone knowing plus you will get a lot of sympathetic people trying to help
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Re: Anorexia Problems
« Reply #10 on: July 14, 2013, 02:44:50 am »

She recently gained two kilos.
By being on the drip.
...
But no, she doesn't have a problem.
Am I the only one shocked about it? Shouldn't people lose weight on the drip?
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“There, I did something. I clapped. I like clapping,” he said. -The Investigator And The Case Of The Missing Brain.

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Re: Anorexia Problems
« Reply #11 on: July 14, 2013, 02:57:28 am »

She recently gained two kilos.
By being on the drip.
...
But no, she doesn't have a problem.
Am I the only one shocked about it? Shouldn't people lose weight on the drip?
If she isn't losing weight on the drip, that probably means her body stopped breaking itself down for energy when it got some nutrients. Anyway, the best thing I can think of would be to have her committed.