Titles are found at the bottom of the pretender description, yes.
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So I actually played Ur a bit today. Against indies their troops seem good, if somewhat expensive. Naked lady of love and war got mangled by most indies early on. She definitely needs some buffs/gear to get going. But at fairly basic titan stats, flying and inbuilt awe, she has the potential to bust some heads. You could take her awake and research alt or const for a few levels, not sure if it's worth it. Right now I feel that Ur could do best with a dormant pretender to max our some scales or to get a nice cheap bless (like A4E4 or E4+). The sacred troops don't seem worth a major bless and their best non-fort mage isn't sacred either so I'm reluctant to vouch for anything higher than say E6.
I really like the intrinsic flying Love&War has, but I guess it's not a must since Ur has plenty of A2 mages. You could replicate the effect with flying boots for non-flying titans, but you can get reinvig+2 boots of the messenger (+3 in the next patch) instead. Other gods in the pantheon have flying too, but I'm not sure if others have as good paths as Love&War has.
Certainly looks like a workable nation. I'd probably research alteration early on, there's a bunch of good AWEN spells there that your nationals can cast that would help you keep those pricy 17g chaff units alive. Foo-warriors, arrow fend, some offensive stuff and buffs for the dormant god. Yeah, I think that's worth looking into.
Expansion seemed pretty swell against low to mid strength indies with some spear guards for arrow bait and unarmoured enkidu soldiers a bit to the back ready to hack away with their hatchets.