I think you seem to be conflating Islam with Islamism. It's not, any more than Christianity is fundamentalism.
Fundamentalist Christian terrorists exist and kill people in the US. The Army of God has made that obvious. The KKK had widespread popular and government support for an unfortunately large chunk of US history. An unfortunately large part of Uganda, including the current government, is basic Christian Zealots versus Christian Zealots, who think the proper Christian way to do things is to kill everyone who disagrees with them for Jesus. Every one of your arguments applies just as strongly to Christianity, in every way except that Christianity is now more common in the much more peaceful "West" than in war torn places like North Africa, the Middle East, and parts of Asia.
Look at your list here: (minus the first one which I don't understand the meaning of - incomplete sentence?)
You may tolerate a religion that approves killing women for "immoral*" behavior. I will not
You may tolerate a religion that approves rapes of ten year olds because that is "lawful marriage". I will not
You may tolerate a religion that allows rapes of "enemy women". I will not
You may tolerate a religion that uses terror as a method of conversion. I will not
You may tolerate a religion that despises all other beliefs. I will not
Every one of these (and worse) applies to Christianity as well. Maybe not the breed of Christianity that is popular in your part of the world - but I doubt the breed of Islam in your part of the world condones any of these either. Look at the parts of the world that deal with the same sorts of problems, like in various parts of Africa, and the Christian immorality is almost exactly the same.
Because Religions are not Cultures. Cultures shape religion, and religion shapes culture, but they are not the same thing.