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« Reply #90 on: May 14, 2013, 10:35:41 pm »
She doesn't want to be with you.  Therefore you do not mesh well together.

I think you should reread what you've been saying with an eye for logical consistency.
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« Reply #91 on: May 14, 2013, 10:42:03 pm »
Fedora charged
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« Reply #92 on: May 15, 2013, 10:56:00 am »
Lmfao
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« Reply #93 on: May 15, 2013, 09:43:06 pm »
Be silent
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« Reply #94 on: May 15, 2013, 10:58:56 pm »
I think she already said she had a boyfriend and that you need to accept that she made a decision.

I also think that it's kind of yucky to those girls that you're going out with them in order to make her jealous.

And I think it's yucky to go with all these presumptions about her current relationship.
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« Reply #95 on: May 15, 2013, 11:39:11 pm »
Dont
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« Reply #96 on: May 15, 2013, 11:51:14 pm »
I think the point that Vector is trying to convey is that you're still trying to make her jealous. You're doing it to get her back. In this hypothetical scenario, other girls are a means to an end for you (I want to feel better + I want her to be jealous and take me back). And you're currently ignoring that and trying to convince yourself that it's otherwise.

I really do want good things for you and her and the whole deal, so I hope you can forgive me for saying this... but I do not think your judgement on how best to proceed has been getting any better. This was unhealthy and obsessive to begin with, and your proposed solution is even less healthy and even more obsessive.

Seriously, if you care about yourself, and care about her well-being at all, break it off in it's entirety. Let her know you're going to spend some time apart, out of contact. Don't even talk to her, take care of yourself for a minute, and try to get your head straight. And most importantly, let her do her own thing, without resenting her for it and trying to hurt her until she comes back. Because that is not what you do to people you love.

It's what you do to people you want to possess.

Think about it.
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« Reply #97 on: May 16, 2013, 12:09:33 am »
Smokes
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« Reply #98 on: May 16, 2013, 12:12:13 am »
Well, good.  That sounds unusually healthy from both of you.
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« Reply #99 on: May 16, 2013, 12:33:49 am »
Yea ok
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« Reply #100 on: May 21, 2013, 09:24:55 pm »
Christmas
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« Reply #101 on: May 21, 2013, 09:28:56 pm »
I'm recommending some time without any girls, bud.  It's not fair to them to start romantic relationships when you're this entangled with the other gal.
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« Reply #102 on: May 21, 2013, 09:42:35 pm »
Hmmmm
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« Reply #103 on: May 21, 2013, 10:24:16 pm »
That's fine.  Doesn't mean you're over her.  Like, actually over her.
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« Reply #104 on: May 29, 2013, 09:07:00 pm »
FORTNITE will be king
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