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[Foamybeard]

Alright. I guess I'm making one of those "Help with a girl" threads that I despise, but I'm confused as fuck and have no place to turn other than my friends here.

Three weeks ago this girl I work with (Lets call her... Alice) gave me her number and told me to call her sometime. I gave her a call three days later, and we talked for a while. Then a week later I gave her a call when she didn't show up for work to see if she was okay, because I heard from a mutual friend that she was sick.

That was last Sunday. Last thursday, she complained to my dad (I work as a janitor for a company that contracts for my dad's company) that I "Call her a lot."


I guess I'm confused, since I guess a girl asking you to call her anytime means "Don't call me" or some shit like that.

Fuck it, I don't know, maybe I missed some obscure social cue somewhere, and I came off creepy?

I don't know. Any advice from someone would be appreciated. Any Idea where I went wrong? Why would she give me her number if she didn't want me to call her?

[Zrk2]

Just do what I do: Bottle it all up and become an embittered wreck.

[Foamybeard]

Just do what I do: Bottle it all up and become an embittered wreck.

I usually do that, I'm trying to change, however.

[DJ]

Two calls a week apart is too much? Yeah, she's kinda crazy, just move on.

[Foamybeard]

Two calls a week apart is too much? Yeah, she's kinda crazy, just move on.

Aren't they all?

*laugh* True, thats smart.

[Grey_Wolf]

A Level 30 Space Marine Janitor such as Yourself has no need for such crazy Wenches! forget about Her and move onto a different Girl!

[Vector]

Two calls a week apart is too much? Yeah, she's kinda crazy, just move on.

Aren't they all?

>_>

Two calls a week apart is too much? Yeah, she's kinda crazy, just move on.

Yeah, she's probably decided she's not interested and isn't telling you that in a very sophisticated way.  Definitely move on.

[Foamybeard]

Alright, I think you guys convinced me. I'll move on to someone who isn't... IDK.

[kaijyuu]

Yeah, she sounds nuts.

Anyway, "all girls are crazy" is just as true as "all guys are crazy." People just be cray cray, yo.

[Foamybeard]

I know Kaijyuu, I was just trying to be funny.

[Ricky]

If you're going to break off whatever you think you have there, do it in a blaze of glory and call her up and ask about it. Make sure to actually call her and not just ask her in person.

E:

Spoiler: have an infographic (click to show/hide)

[Vector]

The thing is, she's already told him about it.  If she misses him then she can call him up--the onus is on her.

[Max White]

Yes, all girls are crazy. And don't think turning gay will help, the guys are crazy too!

Point is, cut that one loose, there are better fish in yar waters.

[lordcooper]

The thing is, she's already told him about it.  If she misses him then she can call him up--the onus is on her.

How anyone can type that without a deliberate typo is beyond me.

[Yoink]

Just do what I do: Bottle it all up and become an embittered wreck.

I think you just won the Life Advice subforum.