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Unfortunatley, unless someone intervenes when shit starts to fly out there, its gonna be a bloody mess with millions dead. Hell, even if China or US/UN/NATO flexes muscles, its a likley clusterfuck. My money is on it ending up some kind of military dictatorship, with a China approved puppet warlord at the helm.
I agree with you that this will end in terrible bloodshed no matter what happens. However I think the pressure from the South would be too great to have the Northern people come under Chinese/Communist/Juche control again. Though the Southerners are usually quite clear that they don't want these Northerners wrecking their beautiful economy with their mind numbing poverty, I think that will change when people see the truth.
Don't underestimate how bad this could be. When people start seeing what went on (and is going on now) in those camps it'll be like another Holocaust or the Killing Fields of the Khmer Rouge. Everyone all over the world will be saying "We didn't know it was this bad! How could this happen?" but the truth will be that we did know, we just didn't bother to do anything about it. It's not like the Kims had oil.
*cough*. Err, not following the Historic record unfortunately. Plus the Kims have Nukes. Most unstable countries don't have Nukes. That flips the equation tremendously. I hear a lot through fairly world-wide media about NK doing terrible terrible things, and I don't think anyone can claim to doubt it much. It's something that can't be dealt with by most nations, only the US, South Korea and China are in a position to actively alter events there.
Of those, bear in mind those smuggled things come from China. Most North Koreans will look to China as a place of prosperity (which is, of course, a view advanced by the North Korean government), and compared to where they are coming from, it is. The DMZ has acted effectively as a iron wall instead of a curtain, and South Korean Influence is limited to their geographic proximity. I mean the South Koreans won't stand for the regular North Korea, and the North Korean government is still there. Don't overestimate what outside forces can do.
I mean the US still doesn't stand for Cuba, and recently Cuba just shut down all private movie and video-games parlors. And they seem to be doing fine. Hell they're just flipping the bird at Florida, and there's not a damn thing the US can do.