Isn't the golden rule of the server "do unto others as you would have them do unto you."?
Where in that equation does being an asshole for no reason and calling it rp fit? If you screw with other people for no reason other then that, then you damn well better expect them to return the favor. Turnabout is fair play. I don't care if you're the HoS and think its hilarious to fuck with innocent law-abiding crewman. If you fuck with me for no reason at all, I WILL be looking to pay you back. I mean, if I'm an antag or started it then I expect to be shitted on, but otherwise it does not fly man.
Want to know why they all got angry at me? Because I declined a security mech a roboticist randomly made because I was understaffed, and told them to keep it locked up until I needed it. They both got angry because they thought I was ordering them around, called me a dick, and proceeded to spend the rest of the round running around in security mechs. I'm just pissed off I had to waste my time dealing with them.
Yeah to be fair once you start being a massive dick RP-wise, then it's totally fair for me to RP-wise get really pissed off at your character and say feed you a amatoxin sandwich.
Again, I wasn't even acting like a massive dick. You can ask anyone, and they know I generally play my characters as slight assholes. Does this mean I'm purposely going around to fuck with people? Not at all. I rarely do that unless I'm playing antag, or trying to provoke revs in a rev round. Otherwise I play the job as I should.
Now if this entire head conflict was actually roleplayed well, I would of been completely fine with it. Hell, I've played a round where it was basically just the heads fighting each other and it was pulled off rather well.