Even though Terenos just ninjaed me im gonna post this now anyway, because i went to the damn length to actually look up your last 5 or 6 actions.
Pariah he doesn't take liberty with your actions. You forgot to add important information to your actions.
Both times when you collapsed the tower you just went outside even though it was stated that the tower was the ONLY viable source of stone nearby.
After being healed by Jerik again Flint heads outside and summons a pair of stone golems.
If Jerik fails to heal Flint he shall simply order a comfy saddle to be made for his warhorse.
so you can't accuse Terenos there of liberties.
If you are refer to the broken ribs, what do you exactly imagine happens when one tries to wave around his arms and move around while his ribs are broken? A broken rib may pierce your lung and contrary to pop-culture belief is quite the annoying thing that stops you from moving much.
THe only other thing you can accuse him of is in regards to the bow action. Lets assume you really gave that order...how do you suppose do you ready a bow secretly? i mean even if you walk around with a notched bow after the tower was collapsed people would get
a) suspicious at the latest point when you still walk towards them with a notched bow. After all you are not in a combat situation.
b) lets say nobody reacts to your notched bow while you are standing in front of them, the moment you were hit in the face and staggered back a few steps the arrow would very propably jump from the string.
c) you are an untrained individual. At least with a bow. Have you ever tried to draw a bow? I have three or four times as a total untrained person you somehow drop the arrow half the time, not to mention the time it takes for you to make it actually combat ready, by that time spells would have been unleashed, especially if the other two guys had the initiative
Finally you only posted "Defend myself". That is no orders given to the golems. Of course we can automatically assume that you will call them. But imagine the mental artistry of drawing and aiming a bow, recovering from strike to the face, spurting out some stone magic incantations to protect yourself and ordering the Golems to do your order.
Lets say the golems react themselves, they are not intelligent beings but you gave them the order to protect yourself even then the order would only kick in once it comes to physical violence. Even then they are nonintelligent things which need to react to shit. The bigger they get the longer they take to react, enough time to kill you or kill them.
and although i already said finally, finally stop complaining. YOU didn't die due to some other person not realizing that creating stone golems near a STONE TOWER isnt a good idea. It's a game with high mortality rate, get used to it or go home. Honestly the complaining and arguing with Terenos isn't going to change anything so either make a new character and stop complaining or ignore the thread from now on.