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[DrPoo]

INCOMING TRANSMISSION FROM SPACE PROBE SHITWANK
ESTIMATED DISTANCE FROM SIG.SRC: 2000 Lightyears in SPACE

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My girlfriend left me. Stop. It hurts. Stop. Tried it before, 2 years depressed with no resorts. Stop.
I am suicidal. Stop. Because. Stop. I dont want to. Stop. Feel. Stop. That. Stop. Depression. Stop. Again. Stop.
I want to end this. Stop. Someone please help me. Stop. Not first time. Stop.

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[kaijyuu]

I dunno if you're trying to add wacky stuff to reduce any potential melodrama, or what, but stop it Just makes it harder to figure out what you want.


Anyway, girlfriend left you: You were not compatible. It is not necessarily your fault, it is not necessarily her fault, it is not necessarily anyone's fault. You'll have to give more details before I can give any real advice, but do make sure you're not hating yourself because of it.

[Korbac]

She was a gardener, you were a ukelele bear wielding tank wrestler from outer space. Some things just don't mesh.

Sorry to hear that dude.

[Lectorog]

This may be terrible advice, but I'll try.

You probably won't find anyone that much like her in the future, but you will almost certainly find someone you like just as much if not more, who makes you feel just as good, perhaps even better. What it takes is to keep trying. Love is usually an in and out thing for a while. It hurts. But after some time, after a few failures or misoccurrences or perhaps many, there will probably be one that sticks. And if not, it does start to hurt less. You learn to move on. It happened and parts were great; it's over and it's time to start anew; all you can do is keep trying your best, learning from mistakes, and enjoy the fond memories when the present isn't working as well.

And if you want someone to talk to, there are genuine people out there. People who know you're a real individual, who may not know you but actually want to learn, who have their own lives and their own experiences and their own views that you can use to make yourself better. People who offer you a hand up or a pat on the back and exchange lighthearted jokes, who are okay with you because you really aren't a bad person (and I may not know you as well as some people here, but I think you're pretty cool). I sure don't know where to find these people, but someone looking at this topic might. I can tell you that a forum is not the place to be a person. A forum is the place to be a fountain of fact and opinion, which others may link together to personify you or leave the bits as unidentified contributions.

I really hope this at least didn't make anything worse. For the most part, the people around here care, and we'll try to help the best we can when you ask for it; but certainly not everyone always knows the right ways to help.

[Hiiri]

Captain Asocial awayyy!

Depression is underrated. It has several benefits;
1) You have an unique opportunity to observe the world from an objective viewpoint with minimal emotional connections.
2) You can save loads of money in A) Hobbies, since you really cannot enjoy the things you used to. B) Food, all the food tastes the same, might as well eat the cheap, tasteless crap. C) Staying home alone, it is much cheaper than going out with friends.
3) Feeling disgust with your mirror image can be a great source of inspiration for self-improvement.
4) You might not feel the highs, but at least you won't crash and burn either.

Beep boop beep. Stop. End of transmission. Roger. Beepity boop.

[DrPoo]

This may be terrible advice, but I'll try.

You probably won't find anyone that much like her in the future, but you will almost certainly find someone you like just as much if not more, who makes you feel just as good, perhaps even better. What it takes is to keep trying. Love is usually an in and out thing for a while. It hurts. But after some time, after a few failures or misoccurrences or perhaps many, there will probably be one that sticks. And if not, it does start to hurt less. You learn to move on. It happened and parts were great; it's over and it's time to start anew; all you can do is keep trying your best, learning from mistakes, and enjoy the fond memories when the present isn't working as well.

And if you want someone to talk to, there are genuine people out there. People who know you're a real individual, who may not know you but actually want to learn, who have their own lives and their own experiences and their own views that you can use to make yourself better. People who offer you a hand up or a pat on the back and exchange lighthearted jokes, who are okay with you because you really aren't a bad person (and I may not know you as well as some people here, but I think you're pretty cool). I sure don't know where to find these people, but someone looking at this topic might. I can tell you that a forum is not the place to be a person. A forum is the place to be a fountain of fact and opinion, which others may link together to personify you or leave the bits as unidentified contributions.

I really hope this at least didn't make anything worse. For the most part, the people around here care, and we'll try to help the best we can when you ask for it; but certainly not everyone always knows the right ways to help.

Thanks man. I havent slept or eaten, i cant. I have no appetite and the emotional pain and my constant heart rate wont let me sleep.
And now she has deleted her everything. Fantastic. No way to restore this.

Love is a bet im not doing again. It hurts more than it gains.

[Exerosp]

How many times have you told yourself that?

Like both my friends, and some of you guys have told me, you're overreacting! I know that not being together with the one you love(/d) is horrible, but you'll make it through. I was depressive as fuck this morning, but the close ones to me cheered me up, and she dragged both me out of the mud, and then my friends started groping my legs.

Just eat some chocolate or relax, take time and just lay in a chilly room. Don't go die on me yet Mon'. I do know the feel though. Don't overthink. Do things naturally.

Sorry if my advice was not that helpful. I'm horrible when it comes to putting thoughts into words. Good luck though chap.
And as a joke, get some padding in your shoes, our feet are getting chilly.


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I seem to have peed on my screen, since a waterdrop smelling of urine was on it.

[martinuzz]

Look at the bright side: She just spared you years of marital arguing, and endless divorce procedures.

But really. The end of a relation is not the end of the world. Rather, a new beginning. Go out and have fun, mr bachelor! Who knows, you might bump into the real Miss right-for-you anytime soon. Just don't go looking for her.

[DrPoo]

Damn guys why couldnt you just be my neighbors so we could go on a bar and drink and shit.
I would love some good friends now. Sad thing is i have no friends in my reach.

[RedKing]

Look at the bright side: She just spared you years of marital arguing, and endless divorce procedures.

But really. The end of a relation is not the end of the world. Rather, a new beginning. Go out and have fun, mr bachelor! Who knows, you might bump into the real Miss right-for-you anytime soon. Just don't go looking for her.

^^^^^ This.

Trust me, it could be worse. A LOT worse. I know from experience.

[DrPoo]

Look at the bright side: She just spared you years of marital arguing, and endless divorce procedures.

But really. The end of a relation is not the end of the world. Rather, a new beginning. Go out and have fun, mr bachelor! Who knows, you might bump into the real Miss right-for-you anytime soon. Just don't go looking for her.

^^^^^ This.

Trust me, it could be worse. A LOT worse. I know from experience.

The reason why i love this forum is because of the much varied age groups visitting it. All from 12 year old boys that discovered that coloured smileys butchering c's, E's and g's is fun to the 40 year old simulator dude that knows his shit.

[martinuzz]

What helped me after my last gf broke up, was watching the Big Lebowski again.
Really, that movie has that much power, to help you put things back into perspective.
Watch it, dude.

[DrPoo]

What helped me after my last gf broke up, was watching the Big Lebowski again.
Really, that movie has that much power.
Watch it, dude.

I'll see if i can buy it in the store.
I usually play horror games or watch gore to drive away feelings like this. I feel less human, and thus, less emotional by doing that.

Maybe its time for an Adventure Mode genocide? Anyone else relieve bad shit and stress that way?

[martinuzz]

For that matter, I go burn stuff as a Pyro in TF2.

EDIT: wait, what. Buy the movie? Does that mean you have actually never seen the Big Lebowski yet? Then you *really* need to watch.

[DrPoo]

For that matter, I go burn stuff as a Pyro in TF2.

EDIT: wait, what. Buy the movie? Does that mean you have actually never seen the Big Lebowski yet? Then you *really* need to watch.

I guess im missing out on some major culture here?