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[Exerosp]

Hello again Bay12!

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Like, there was this girl that randomly added me on Skype a week and 6days ago. We talked a lot, and  the first day she complained about how no one wanted a serious relationship and that she kept being deceived, she gave an example of a girl she liked that had burnt her and shizz. Like, she told her she loved her and how perfect she was, then she cheated. Another example was of how she was with a guy that did piercings and how he usually looks like a introvert guy but he as very clingy and... Yeah, they did it.

 After a while she talked to me she kinda realized I like to make a fool out of myself for others pleasure, which warmed me up so much I fell for her. We got together this friday, and she's also really forward. But yesterday when I was out running she sent a text of how her gay guyfriend wanted to visit the same guy. I assumed that it was to cheer her up or something or he thought she'd need the "relaxation". It Grinded me so much that I jumped from slow pace running to sprint-ervals. Let's just say that in my previous threads my condition has worsened and that I'm a lazy ass but I've got motivation now.
I'm not furious as to wether she'll be with him, just that she might not like me... That I'm not good enough.
The friend also asked her if they wanted to visit the town very late, so I assumed that it was most certainly his intentions.

This Crow is afraid of loosing that treasure, one that he did not have the need to steal yet kept more precious than any.

Edit: I'm asking about your opinions about my worries.

[LordBucket]

I notice that there's no question anywhere in there.

[Exerosp]

I notice that there's no question anywhere in there.

Fix'd for ye.

[LordBucket]

I'm asking about your opinions about my worries.

My opinion is that it might be more productive to identify a desirable end result and to take action to bring it about rather than passively subjecting yourself to situations not to your liking, experiencing "worry" over them, then expelling that worry into a forum thread solely for the purpose of making room for more in your emotional body so you can continually re-expose yourself in a never-ending cycle.

This Crow is afraid of loosing that treasure

It is difficult to lose something that was not yours in the first place.

[lordcooper]

Just ask her out if that's what you want.  Yes or no, doubt will be gone.

[Gotdamnmiracle]

There is no winning. Walk away.

[Exerosp]

I AM togetheer with her guys. Like said, she slept over last weekend and shit. But the thing I Dubted (which has been cleared now, thank god for her being so awesome) was that she might jump back at the guy she went with just once. She has assured me nothing like that will happen though.

I'm sorry Bucket for not giving you a proper response, I almost bashed my iPad writing THIS response and the software/hardware failure also fucked up a reply to you. I appreciate it though.
And these are ways for me to vent my thoughts rather then keeping them up and binding myself to one possibility. But still, thanks.

Are my paranoial thoughts a cause of abundance of energy? I seem to have calmed last evening when my brother showed some tiresome exercises at the gym.

[weenog]

Depends on how seriously you're taking your paranoia. A fight or flight response to panic will certainly leave you wired for a while, but you pay for the exertion in the long run.

Maybe you should check out this book if you can get hold of it.  The way it's presented is silly (which can itself be useful if you're stressed out), but there's a lot of serious and useful ideas in there.  I got it for myself just because I thought it would be a fun read, but I've been using some of what's in there and it's solving or eliminating some problems I've been having.

[Exerosp]

Weenog I thank you. Your previous advice WAS helpful, though I got injuries now and then because of my two left feet. But it was great though. Laziness however did win, and now i'm back together with motivation (Friends help alot, didn't know that. Gets you fired up).

I'll look into this book if it's availible through iBooks or somethiing, otherwise i'm afraid I have to find a less trusted copy of it. Thanks in heads though.