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Re: Should Dwarves Have Sexual Orientations?
« Reply #150 on: December 08, 2012, 09:18:58 am »

For clarification, I actually entered this thread by outlining a RAW framework within which same-sex unions could be modeled, so don't lump me in with anyone saying the game shouldn't have teh gays - it's a straw man since that was never my position, but I can just feel both of you itching to shift the goalposts.

I specifically was opposed to the idea that the vanilla game would include auto-generated porgroms against gays, please don't try to stretch that to saying I'm anti-gay or said the game shouldn't have gays at all. GreatWyrmGold was specifically opposed to my proposal to have gays added but without social stigma.

This is specifically why I worded it on the last page, that i thought it very unlikely Toady would code "gay bashing"(i even bolded that term to make it clearer) rather than just saying he wouldn't code "gays". He's said he'd code gays, yes. He's never said he'd code gays being beaten up, which is the specific proposal of GreatWyrmGold that I disagreed with.
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Re: Should Dwarves Have Sexual Orientations?
« Reply #151 on: December 08, 2012, 10:32:49 am »

As I see it, there's no way to add sexual orientation without making a political statement on the causes and effects of any sexuality added and on the reasons for it to be added and for others not to be. No neutral ground. Whichever Toady chooses to do will lead to a lot of people getting their feelings hurt in a way or another. How will it be implemented? Fixed percentages set on birth, as if they were "born that way"? If so, what will be the percentages? Or will all dwarves be bisexual by default? Why add the heterosexual/homosexual binary, and not other sexualities as well? Will pederasty be added, considering that it has always been so common through history? If not, why not? Too sensitive and controversial? Well, doesn't this thread (and many others) proves that homosexuality itself is sensitive, too? And even if homosexuality is implemented, why assume that dwarven view on marriage will be analogous to our own contemporary western views on it? After all, lets not forget that even in societies were homosexuality was tolerated (and perhaps even embraced), homosexual marriage has always been something rare, and they almost never enjoyed the same status of their heterosexual counterparts (not out of bigotry, mind you, but simply because of a different understanding of marriage).

I'm already accostumed to such polemics, but I wouldn't want them to have their way into a game I like. If it was up to me, I would make (keep?) dwarfs asexual and dwarven marriage a matter of having children and some function of status. I think that that's the most practical and neutral solution and it is conceivable.
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Re: Should Dwarves Have Sexual Orientations?
« Reply #152 on: December 08, 2012, 01:09:09 pm »

As I see it, there's no way to add sexual orientation without making a political statement on the causes and effects of any sexuality added and on the reasons for it to be added and for others not to be. No neutral ground. Whichever Toady chooses to do will lead to a lot of people getting their feelings hurt in a way or another.

Honestly, I don't see it as a big deal, since the same could be said of all aspects of dwarven personalities. Hell, dwarves are born liking foods they don't even have reason to know exist yet.

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How will it be implemented? Fixed percentages set on birth, as if they were "born that way"? If so, what will be the percentages? Or will all dwarves be bisexual by default? Why add the heterosexual/homosexual binary, and not other sexualities as well? Will pederasty be added, considering that it has always been so common through history? If not, why not? Too sensitive and controversial? Well, doesn't this thread (and many others) proves that homosexuality itself is sensitive, too?

I don't think this is a fair comparison. The modern understanding of pederasty is that it's a harmful practice, whereas homosexuality is not. Homosexuality is a sensitive issue, but being homosexual is not wrong or unhealthy in the way that pederasty is.
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Re: Should Dwarves Have Sexual Orientations?
« Reply #153 on: December 08, 2012, 01:43:46 pm »

The point is that Toady, by doing anything other than promising equality, will be making a political statement.  One others may not agree with.  Like any controversial issue, if homosexuality is forced upon the player than you risk losing them.  In almost any game where homoexuality is available its an option, one the player has to initiate.  Don't want your fable guy to be gay?  don't give a dude flowers.  Don't want Shelby the Sim to be gay?  Don't flirt with chicks.

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Re: Should Dwarves Have Sexual Orientations?
« Reply #154 on: December 08, 2012, 02:32:49 pm »

The point is that Toady, by doing anything other than promising equality, will be making a political statement.  One others may not agree with.  Like any controversial issue, if homosexuality is forced upon the player than you risk losing them.

Except it really oughtn't be controversial in the first place. It's not Toady's fault if homophobic attitudes still exist in society.

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In almost any game where homoexuality is available its an option, one the player has to initiate.  Don't want your fable guy to be gay?  don't give a dude flowers.  Don't want Shelby the Sim to be gay?  Don't flirt with chicks.

Those are games where you control individual characters directly. That is not the case here. For that matter, in The Sims, sims have autonomy anyway (especially neighbors you aren't immediately controlling), and can and will do things like that without your instigation.
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Re: Should Dwarves Have Sexual Orientations?
« Reply #155 on: December 08, 2012, 06:40:45 pm »

The point is that Toady, by doing anything other than promising equality, will be making a political statement.  One others may not agree with.  Like any controversial issue, if homosexuality is forced upon the player than you risk losing them.  In almost any game where homoexuality is available its an option, one the player has to initiate.  Don't want your fable guy to be gay?  don't give a dude flowers.  Don't want Shelby the Sim to be gay?  Don't flirt with chicks.
One of his games is named Liberal Crime Squad. An approved method of playing is going around shooting conservatives. I don't think he's shy about making a political statement, to be honest.
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Re: Should Dwarves Have Sexual Orientations?
« Reply #156 on: December 08, 2012, 06:45:38 pm »

The point is that Toady, by doing anything other than promising equality, will be making a political statement.  One others may not agree with.  Like any controversial issue, if homosexuality is forced upon the player than you risk losing them.  In almost any game where homoexuality is available its an option, one the player has to initiate.  Don't want your fable guy to be gaydon't give a dude flowers.  Don't want Shelby the Sim to be gayDon't flirt with chicks.
One of his games is named Liberal Crime Squad. An approved method of playing is going around shooting conservatives. I don't think he's shy about making a political statement, to be honest.
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Re: Should Dwarves Have Sexual Orientations?
« Reply #157 on: December 08, 2012, 11:24:19 pm »

This is a problem we should probobly talk about if dorfs get a new brain. First we'd have to define how important sex is for dwaves, and if they are doing it just to make kids and pass on their name and legend. Or if they, "just want to have fun." I imagine this would be different for humans, and gobbos and elves ect.
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Re: Should Dwarves Have Sexual Orientations?
« Reply #158 on: December 08, 2012, 11:36:25 pm »

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How will it be implemented? Fixed percentages set on birth, as if they were "born that way"? If so, what will be the percentages? Or will all dwarves be bisexual by default? Why add the heterosexual/homosexual binary, and not other sexualities as well? Will pederasty be added, considering that it has always been so common through history? If not, why not? Too sensitive and controversial? Well, doesn't this thread (and many others) proves that homosexuality itself is sensitive, too?

I don't think this is a fair comparison. The modern understanding of pederasty is that it's a harmful practice, whereas homosexuality is not. Homosexuality is a sensitive issue, but being homosexual is not wrong or unhealthy in the way that pederasty is.
I never mentioned it being equal, better, worse, wrong or right, only that it existed and that there was a strange tendency for societies to be far more receptive of it than of homosexual relationships between two persons of the same age and status. If we're going to enter in the realm of morals, then there's lots of really nasty things in DF.
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Re: Should Dwarves Have Sexual Orientations?
« Reply #159 on: December 09, 2012, 09:24:26 pm »

I've been gone too long, I chose a few random posts to reply to.

"I'll drop it if you do" - what arrogance. Since all I did was outline my proposal - and you've done nothing but bitch and complain about something that CAN be implemented without totally squicking Toady out and introducing elements that clearly make quite a large chunk of the player-base uncomfortable.
You are the one who wants to end debate, not me.

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And you haven't offered any working model which is a viable alternative. I can actually show how mine works.

If you say "I don't care that it makes others uncomfortable I want it in the game!"- then mod it into your own game, or propose a modding framework which allows it, don't demand every copy of the game ship with your personal wishlist of features as the default. Toady clearly doesn't like adult elements in the game, demanding them and that every other player be forced to deal with it - well that just isn't going to happen in a million years, so get a realistic obsession.
Why is conflict over homosexuality different than religious conflict, or racial conflict, or whatever? Why is it okay and not a statement to have goblins and dwarves, who are clearly differentiated by skin color and such, fight, but having a religious group dislike homosexuals and discriminate against them not okay and a big political statement? And didn't someone say a while back that Toady said he'd eventually include homosexuality? I'm pretty sure I remember that.

For clarification, I actually entered this thread by outlining a RAW framework within which same-sex unions could be modeled, so don't lump me in with anyone saying the game shouldn't have teh gays - it's a straw man since that was never my position, but I can just feel both of you itching to shift the goalposts.

I specifically was opposed to the idea that the vanilla game would include auto-generated porgroms against gays, please don't try to stretch that to saying I'm anti-gay or said the game shouldn't have gays at all. GreatWyrmGold was specifically opposed to my proposal to have gays added but without social stigma.

This is specifically why I worded it on the last page, that i thought it very unlikely Toady would code "gay bashing"(i even bolded that term to make it clearer) rather than just saying he wouldn't code "gays". He's said he'd code gays, yes. He's never said he'd code gays being beaten up, which is the specific proposal of GreatWyrmGold that I disagreed with.
Are you also opposed to, say, religious conflict or wars based on the fact that they're goblins and we're humans? Or is there some factor that makes those incredibly different than conflict against homosexuals?
People care about homosexuals? It strikes to close to heart? Guess what, religious wars and racism and stuff are important to people, in one way or another, and all are close to many people's hearts.

The point is that Toady, by doing anything other than promising equality, will be making a political statement.  One others may not agree with.  Like any controversial issue, if homosexuality is forced upon the player than you risk losing them.
Except it really oughtn't be controversial in the first place. It's not Toady's fault if homophobic attitudes still exist in society.
Agreed. What fundamental difference is there between "gay-bashing" and racism? Aside from the targets, of course.

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In almost any game where homoexuality is available its an option, one the player has to initiate.  Don't want your fable guy to be gay?  don't give a dude flowers.  Don't want Shelby the Sim to be gay?  Don't flirt with chicks.
Those are games where you control individual characters directly. That is not the case here. For that matter, in The Sims, sims have autonomy anyway (especially neighbors you aren't immediately controlling), and can and will do things like that without your instigation.
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Indeed.

The point is that Toady, by doing anything other than promising equality, will be making a political statement.  One others may not agree with.  Like any controversial issue, if homosexuality is forced upon the player than you risk losing them.  In almost any game where homoexuality is available its an option, one the player has to initiate.  Don't want your fable guy to be gaydon't give a dude flowers.  Don't want Shelby the Sim to be gayDon't flirt with chicks.
One of his games is named Liberal Crime Squad. An approved method of playing is going around shooting conservatives. I don't think he's shy about making a political statement, to be honest.
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You forgot to mention the presence of homosexuality in the game, or how gay rights are one of the issues the LCS kills Conservatives over.

This is a problem we should probobly talk about if dorfs get a new brain. First we'd have to define how important sex is for dwaves, and if they are doing it just to make kids and pass on their name and legend. Or if they, "just want to have fun." I imagine this would be different for humans, and gobbos and elves ect.
Mentioned early on, no point to homosexuals without romance.

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Here's my point of view.
Homosexuality has no reason to be left out, but at the moment several features are absent that are needed to make it worthwhile.
Romance and love are obvious features needed, assuming dwarves even experience these feelings how humans do. If marriage and intercourse are just for children, there's no point in homosexuality, because it's just a different type of friendship that wouldn't be notably different than a platonic relationship.
I see no fundamental difference between conflict over homosexuality and other conflicts, and since such conflicts exist both now and in the past, it's sensible to assume that nothing in particular should prevent conflict over gays happening if, say, racial discrimination or religious wars are permissible.
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Re: Should Dwarves Have Sexual Orientations?
« Reply #160 on: December 09, 2012, 09:25:52 pm »

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It's one of the issues, but theres no way to influence it other then general liberalness.
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Re: Should Dwarves Have Sexual Orientations?
« Reply #161 on: December 09, 2012, 09:26:57 pm »

My point being that Toady obviously has nothing against conflict over homosexuality on principal.
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Re: Should Dwarves Have Sexual Orientations?
« Reply #162 on: December 09, 2012, 09:27:49 pm »

I was just mentioning the LCS forum practice of coloring words based on liberalness.
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Re: Should Dwarves Have Sexual Orientations?
« Reply #163 on: December 09, 2012, 09:29:27 pm »

Meh.
Your post was the easiest to reach with the "insert quote" button and the most recent note in the LCS conversation.
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Re: Should Dwarves Have Sexual Orientations?
« Reply #164 on: December 09, 2012, 09:54:34 pm »

I think we're overextending here, and not in a good way either.
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