EVERYONE STOP GIVING ADVICES ABOUT ARGUING AND DEBATING AND STUFF
Dude! It's okay to feel good when you see someone in a worse situtation. Realizing there are people who are in a worse situtation than you is comforting. You feel that you aren't in a bad situtation as you would believe. You aren't soulless, we all do this, first stage of empathy. You can't feel empathy without the existance of apathy. Okay, this is getting a little difficult to explain. Look, we all watch news on the TV all the time and mostly it's bad news. We are used to it. When the reporter says "30 people died in a place someone you don't care about. Back to you x." we just think "Eh, something like that would never happen to me." We act like we don't have the ability to experience a car accident or an earthquake. If we didn't live like that, we would go crazy. I don't know about you but I don't have energy to feel bad whenever I witness something bad. Unless you decide to call yourself Hitler II or something, you aren't soulless.
And this unimportant thing, you couldn't be more wrong. You don't do anything important for anyone? That's bullshit. Even if you don't really have an effect on the life of anyone (including your family) at least you don't have a negative effect on the lives of people. I knew seriously fucked up people who were considered a piece of meat that uses up oxygen and takes up space. And if you think nobody cares about you, well... what about your family? WTF AM I DOING HERE THEN?