How do you view the wealthy?
Not sure how productive this conversation islikely to be, but in general I side with the rich on this topic. The middle class is stupid and plagued by emotional issues regarding money.
http://finance.yahoo.com/news/21-ways-rich-people-think-differently.html
If you're one of the brainwashed, worthless, middle class people the article talks about,
you might have a hard time getting through. Because MAN does it condescend.
Here you go. I skimmed through the article and I don't see anything condescending in there at all. What in there is offensive? There merest fact that it speaks of "rich people" and "average people" and "the middle class?"
Get over it.
If you can't even read about these things without getting angry about it, how can you possibly expect to improve your status in life?
A lot of people are
angry at "the rich." A lot of people believe that rich people are evil, or that money is evil, or that in some way money and people who have it are morally bankrupt, or...something. If you really believe that...do you see how that provides an emotional incentive to NOT have money? After all, "rich people are evil." And if you were rich...that would make you evil, right?
It's helpful to be aware of our emotions and thoughts. If you really believe that being rich is somehow wrong, you're probably going to have a more difficult time becoming rich than someone who believes it's a good thing.
I also liked how the article dodged the entire topic of inherited wealth.
What about it? Yes, some people come from rich families and never have to work a day in their lives. What exactly is the problem here?
So far as I can tell the middle class generally gets some sort of twisted sense of self-worth from the fact of working. No, I'm sorry...taking pride in your
servitude is completely stupid.
Some people are beautiful. Some people are smarter than others. Some people are born into rich families. And guess what? Some people are stupid, ugly,
and poor. There's no system of imposed fairness here. Maybe "all men are equal before God." But all men are
not equal here on earth in human society. You can insist all day long if you want that people "should" be equal."
Let us know if insisting that ever makes you rich.
I have more of a problem with the bastards if they are wealthy. I'm not sure why, it just seems wrong.
Ahh....
honesty. Thank you. This is very good. You have more of a problem with bastards when they happen to be rich. It's very healthy for you to be able to come to terms with that. Now...just ask yourself
why you feel this way. You don't need to tell me, you don't need to try to explai it to bay12, but
you, personally, in your own life will probably benefit from examining why you feel this way.
Is it for the reasons I suggested above? That on some level you believe that money is evil? Is there a religious motivation? "it's easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter heaven." (
Matthew 19-24) (Which, incidentally, is mistranslation.) Did you grow up with parents who complained about rich people and that rubbed off onto you? What is it? And do these feelings negatively affect your life? Again...if on some level you feel that being rich is wrong...your own emotions will be working against you if you ever try to become rich yourself.
Noblesse Oblige.
If a wealthy person is uncomfortable with that responsibility (see: Ayn Rand objectivists), then they should give up their power.
Power doesn't work that way. You can say people "should" do anything you want, but people with power will continue to do as they please while people without will whine and complain about how things "should" be.
Look...personally, I'm all in favor of a post-scarcity society without money at all. But sitting around speculating how things would be nicer for you if the people with power would either serve your own interests or hand away their power to someone who would...however true it might be...is unproductive. My life would be nicer right now if my neighbor dressed up in lingerie and brought me some tea. But I'm not going to waste my time suggesting that she should "give up being sexy" if she's not going to use her sexiness to serve my own personal interests.
Saying that people with money "should" give up their money if they don't spend it on poor people is just as silly.
For me, it depends on what they spend the money on. There is no way in hell I can ever
see buying, say, a golden diamond'd chandelier for several millions as something moral.
Why? What's "immoral" about gold/diamond chandeliers? Nobody is being harmed by such a purchase. What could possibly be "immoral" about using one's energies towards ends of one's own choosing in manners that cause no harm to others?
It's very dangerous ground to say that X is "wrong" because it's too decadent. Where do you draw the line? Wealth is relative. You're probably sitting in a nice chair in a house with a computer, yes? Somewhere in the world there's somebody who doesn't have any of those things and hasn't eaten in days. To them...you, your clothes, the food you eat, the car you drive....probably all seems fantastically decadent and rich beyond reason.
But
you don't see it that way.
Why should you expect someone else to see it that way just because they can casually buy a gold/diamond chandelier with the same casualness that you might buy a floral centerpiece for your kitchen table, or hanging bells for your backyard, or any other purely decorative thing you have around your house? None of these purchases are essential. They're all cosmetic. One is simply more expensive than the others, and the only difference between them is your own relative position as an observer.
As for my opinion on the wealthy; They're all bad people, or ignorant. If you allow people to starve, live in dirty hovels, and die of easily treatable diseases while you eat whatever you want, have multiple houses, and get a heart transplant when you're seventy, you are a terrible person and a parasite on society. I don't care how much of a contribution you make, noone has the right to put their own comfort over another's survival.
I see. So then, are
you a terrible person?
Because I'm pretty sure there are some children starving in africa right now. Or if that's too far, there are still plenty of
homeless in america. There are probably people in your home city
right this very moment who are going hungry.
Why are you not helping them? Why are you sitting in the comfort of your chair reading posts on bay12 rather than helping those people meet their survival needs? You could. You could sell your chair and sit on a box. You could stop buying starbucks coffee every day. You probably don't really need an iphone. You could sell your car and take the bus.
All of these things are "comforts" that you choose instead of helping homeless, starving people.
Are you a terrible person?
Oh, you're not? Ok, well...if you made $10,000/yr more than you do right now, and spent that money on a nicer car, better food, and presents for your girlfriend...
then would be a terrible person? Oh, still no? Ok...$20,000? $100,000? Where's the line? At what point does one suddenly become a "terrible person" for spending one's money on one's self rather than others?
There is no line.Right now, odds are good that you're fantastically wealthy by the standards of a large portion of the world. You have food. You have clean water. You live in a house. You probably own a car. Much of the world doesn't have these things. Even in your own city there are probably starving homeless people who don't have these things.
But you don't perceive yourself as being rich. And you probably feel you deserve the things you have. Maybe you feel you deserve a little better than what you have. Well, guess what? People with more money than you feel the same, and there's no magic, arbitrary point of "I have X, and therefore I'm now bad if I don't give my money away."
Power is power. Money is merely one form of power. Power is not inherently evil. I can already imagine some of you reading this and angrily concluding that I'm suggesting that you should run out and go stomp on everyone else to get ahead. If that's really the message you're getting out of this, you're totally missing the point.
Power is not evil. It's ok to have power. If that power takes the form of money, so be it. People who have power...have power. And that's it. There's no "...and they're evil." There's no "...and they should give that power away." They just "...have power." And that's ok.
And if you want to have power, that's ok too. Maybe you don't know how to get power. That's ok. Maybe some people had an easier time getting power, or were given their power through family circumstances or luck. That's all ok. Winning the lottery would not make someone evil. Being born into wealth doesn't make them evil either.
I advise you all to let go of the emotional
baggage you have about money. It's not helping you.