This is my first post, I normally read at work, but can't reply. *Also, slightly long read!*
I don't know how to do much in DF, though I've been a lurker/researcher for a couple years now. My first fortress, Riddleknife, ended, miraculously, after 4 years...since my farm production was sporadic, they were often out of booze AND food, and it wasn't so much a fortress as it was a hole in the ground on some secluded deep forest hill.
Anyway, gruesome highlights:
First was expedition leader Plinky, my miner and drafted commander. After a few successful defenses against gobbos, she had her arm sliced off, her foot broken, other leg shattered, and remaining hand shattered. She fell into a pond and struggled for a bit until drowning. Couldn't recover the body.
After the goblins were routed, fights in the hole broke out, and upon seeing his yak bitten and strangled...Urist McAnimalLover (who's physical description equated to Schwarzenegger) flipped out. The dwarves piled on him as he suffered bruises from their pitiful punches, but the child they were protecting could not be saved from his wrath. Two dogs latched onto him, but he ignored them as well. The Cheesemaker gave his all, but the Caretaker pulled the Cheesemaker's pants off of him and beat him senseless...with the pants. Bones broke under the ceaseless assault of clothing, and the skull finally caved. Next, the pants killed the dogs...then two more children. His frame only suffered bruises, but the pantaloons ended the lives of 3 more dwarves.
The Caregiver was finally tackled into the storeroom containing the remaining brew (and by the results, apparently spilled a precious barrel or two); to my surprise, his skull was crushed in by the fist of Urist McSurgeon. What the doctor didn't know was that Tinky (another founder, wielding a pickaxe) lost her mind at the sight of chaos and spilled beer. He looked up right as she swung a perfectly placed pickaxe into his heart, blood spraying everywhere.
With unfortunate timing, Urist Diagnoser followed the surgeon into the storeroom. Tinky took an arm off, then shattered his leg; another swing lodged in his lung...she pulled and pulled, as he writhed in agony, until the pick was free. And before the doctor could fall, she made one last swipe that liberated his head from his shattered body.
(right after, Tinky fell to another deadly fist to the skull, which punctured the brain. Tantrum spiral was over.)
Alas, someone forgot to order more coffins. The ghosts rose and they haunted...but the spirit of angry Urist McAnimalLover decided to pull the arms off two new doctors, resulting in one death, and a large mess.
The arm pulling caused the second tantrum spiral, and the dwarves, in panic, tried to rob the caravan crew (my desperate attempt for weapons and food.) Riddleknife's doom was sealed when another band of gobbos entered the fight.
The last gruesome and notable death was when Mayor Urist McUseless (who no one ever listened to) got into a fight down in the dormitory. Sadly, with one broken hand, and a punch to the shoulder which sent the bone through his lung, he lay gasping for breath and futilely trying to push away the dwarf pounding on his prone body. The Engraver was tackled and locked with another rival, the Mayor of Riddleknife suffocated next to the scuffle.
(these moments of chaos was when I fell in love with the game, and as you can tell, I'm horrible at it. But seriously, I've heard maybe one case of de-pantsing in DF, but I've never read any stories...in any media...of someone beating multiple friends, children, and dogs to death with a pair of low quality trousers.)