To excuse God’s neglect by saying that God wanted us to make our own choices is to tacitly imply that crimes are committed between consenting adults. If a woman is attacked, or, for that matter, anyone is attacked, she certainly isn’t being given a choice. No one chooses to be raped or murdered.
It's not quite true.
1)No one chooses to be raped or murdered willingly, but no one said about mistakes. If you sin, then you suffer consequences. That may get you raped and murdered... What is even worse you can and will pay for sins of the others
So you're saying that God doesn't care who gets punished, as long as somebody gets punished?
2) You somehow ignore a right for free will of murderer and rapist
Now we have two options.
Option 1: The rape is a punishment for somebody's crime (not necessarily the victim's). Then the rapist was somehow forced to do this by higher powers and therefore doesn't have free will.
Option 2: The rape happens because of the rapist's free will. Then it cannot be a punishment, since the rapist could have decided otherwise.
You hold two mutually exclusive worldviews at once. Doesn't that make you wonder?
Option 3: The rape is a punishment for another person's sin, specifically the rapist's sin of raping the victim. Then God has nothing to do with that.
3) Sufferings and death is not the most important God, he cares about immortal soul
What exactly does he care about? Which properties does he like in an immortal soul? How does he strive to make immortal souls have these properties?
EDIT: If you're Thecard, just read "kill" instead of "rape".