Cultures 1&2 (not sure if there are more of them) are pretty spot on for what you're looking for, similar to the early Settlers games, you start out with some vikings and a big longhouse, build housing, collect resources, construct farms, breweries, explore and defend from stuff and all that, quite fun, plus the stye was quite nice
I have the manual to the first one within sight. I was never any good at it unfortunately; I'd only realise something had gone wrong too late to fix it. I was pretty young when I last played it so perhaps it's time for another try.
Same thing here really, especially since my English wasn't as good back then, so it mostly came down to doing random stuff to see what works, then trying to replicate the results until you have a clear picture of what does what, how and why. It was still pretty fun to see your village grow over time, and the building animations were always kinda cute
The graphics are pretty charming. The world seems really alive with most things animated.
there's also northland and 8th wonder of the world, but they're basically cultures 2 with extra campaign levels
i loved that game as a kid. i had the luck of having it translated to my native language
it has a lot of charm, you really get attached to your little vikings. they marry and have kids, i'd often follow the story of each family, sending the son to the army to avenge his dead father, while the younger son takes up the family's bakery...