What if I were to recommend some JRPGs with fancy graphics, extended cutscenes, full voice-acting, orchestral soundtracks, customization, strategy, a decent storyline, and likeable characters?
Not all of these games may contain all of these characteristics and a few are subjective, so YMMV. They're also all on the Wii.
Three of the games I'm currently trying to beat, along with how they relate to the thread (note that while I am nitpicking portions of each, I do really enjoy each of them in turn and would highly recommend all three):
Arc Rise Fantasia
- Pretty good customization - each weapon for each character has effects that can be unlocked and transferred to any other weapon. There's a very customizable magic system.
- 2d characters - each has a shtick which they rarely deviate from. There are few plot twists that you can't guess beforehand.
- The story isn't amazing. The young (<18) military commander gains mystical dragon powers and goes on a quest to SAVE THE WORLD with an exotic young priestess from a far-away land.
The Last Story
- Not extremely customizable. You can select from a large range of equipment, as long as you don't mind swords/knives for the melee characters and knives for the casters. Equipment can be upgraded along linear paths (+1 to +5, with each new level adding a static amount to attack/defense) to become stronger.
- Characters have some amusing banter amongst themselves. I've not beaten it yet, but there haven't been any plot twists that either weren't blatantly obvious or actually spelled out to the player (if not the character).
- Again, you've seen this story before. Pretty-boy gains the power of the outsiders, falls for a tomboyish princess, and is the only one who can save the good kingdom from the evil baddies who wish to conquer it.
Xenoblade
- A large amount of customization, as long as you don't mind all of it being equipment-based. On the world map and in battles, equipment shows up on the characters.
- Wide open world with a huge number of sidequests, mostly using the staple "Bring me fifteen dire wolf assholes" type of quests.
- Guess what? You've seen this story before, too. This one specific young man in the military is the only one who can wield the mystical Sword of Yendor against the evil machine-men that live on the only other land mass in existence. He falls for an exotic princess who may or may not be of the same species. If the evil machine-men do take over, bad things will happen to all life everywhere.
Edit: Since I finally went back and read the list of games in the OP, I'll list the fourth game I'm trying to beat at the moment: Tales of Symphonia: Dawn of the New World. I don't feel like doing a big write-up, but if you liked the original, you'll probably like this one. Not only are the battle system, graphical style, etc basically identical (minus the free-roaming world map), but there are cameos from most (all?) of the original characters. There's also the added element of Gotta Catch 'Em All in that you can add a number of monsters to your party and keep the rest in a box.