Thank you all for your advice! (and completely hilarious comments
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I wasn't aware of the potential happiness benefits from various military duties (such as killing - it is a shame that I have already exterminated these pesky rhesus macaque so there are non left for her to slaughter. But I controlled myself for long enough already, trying to be patent and not to get angry on the poor animals that just didn't know any better and stole my items and scared my dwarfs all the time. I still felt a bit guilty when on ordering my military to kill one especially naughty specimen, who had stolen a precious, precious rope, the dworfs just wiped out the whole heard whilst I wasn't looking.), but I still would feel uneasy about her keeping her crossbow and armour (such as it is) in the likely eventuality of following in her son's footsteps.
That's hilarious! Did she get the kill?
Holly handgranate! Such possibility hadn't occurred to me but indeed she is credited with the kill of her son! The last two entries in the reports on this ghastly event are of her bashing the child's upper body with her crossbow, bruising the lung (auch!), and he expiring immediately after.
I will try to up the value of her room, and have ordered the immediate production of lavish meals, but I am unsure how I can force her to make a friend (?). In any case, some answers have given me doubt about the possibility of me saving her and I am afraid I will have to start planing for worst.