Prelude: I'm not American, though I do live pretty close to the border. A lot of American right wingers have really weird, inconsistent views of their government. The idea that the government can't be trusted to feed the poor, but it can be trusted with the unlimited power to kill anyone it considers a threat, for example.
I actually strongly disagree with that statement. The government is a representation of the people who formed it ; it makes things that can be done collectively yet cannot be done by lone individuals ; and unlike corporations, it is not here to make profits first, and can work more effectively at meeting needs that are difficult to meet if you try to make a profit out of it.
But who formed the government? I certainly didn't, and no one I know of did. In fact, everyone who formed my government is dead so far as I know.
The people who presently "represent" in Parliament could be argued to fill this role, but their top priority is getting elected and reelected, something that doesn't benefit me unless they decide my vote is incredibly important.
It doesn't have the ability to know what its constituants want, true, but that's not its role. It can, however, know what its constituants need, or more exactly, do the things that its constituants decide it should do.
I'll get to this.
The money it takes from its constituants is not forcefully taken. It has been accepted by a vote first, and is used for the goals set by the representants of the people (to whom they are accountable).
But whether it was accepted by a vote or not is irrelevant. Yes, the politicians are accountable to the
majority, but they aren't accountable to each
individual voter.
It most certainly is forcefully taken on an individual basis. What happens if you don't pay your taxes, or declare yourself to be "independent" from your country? The tax man comes over and demands you pay up. If that fails, armed goons in uniform with guns come and drag you to a cage, whereupon a person with a gavel decrees that a certain amount of your possessions can be stolen and that you can be kidnapped and held for a set period of time. If you attempt to resist these armed goons, they will quite willingly shoot you and THEN seize your possessions.
What, exactly, makes the government a "legitimate" institution? If everyone on my street has a vote to seize the property of a quarter of the people living here and we vote yes, are we justified in taking their things? After all, we are the majority, and we are the "constituents" of whoever we send to actually repossess that which we consider to be ours. How about our town, our county, our province? At what point do we cease to be criminal and become a government? What differentiates the government from, say, the mafia? Is the mafia legitimate if it provides services of some kind to those it extorts?
Well, at least, in theory. In practice, I don't know, I'm french, it seems to work kinda well. Much better than the US at the very least. There's flaws, like every other human system, but overall the system is good. Having two nationalities, I have been poor in the US and have been poor in France, and while it's not fun to be poor anywhere, living in France is much less dangerous and precarious than living in the US. I don't know much about politics and economics like all of you here, but I have seen which society is best at keeping its people in good health and which one is best at helping them in time of need. I don't know, I guess it always depends on what your goals are in the end.
The welfare state doesn't ultimately improve the lives of its people, it simply shuffles resources around and fools people into thinking their lives are improved. There comes a point where the welfare state is incapable of providing for its people enough to make the costs seem justified, and at this point people begin to resist. This point as already been reached in Greece and Italy, and it likely this point will be reached soon in the rest of the world, including both the USA and France.
I don't feel like the government is taking my money by force as well, and while there's a lot of bickering about what the government's goals should be and how should they be reached, I haven't really seen anyone who think taxes are money taken from them by force here. Everyone discuss the details, but nobody think the general idea is flawed and should be scrapped away. That the government steals your money seems to be very american a sentiment.
Certainly most people, in fact an overwhelming majority, would not consider the government to be illegitimate. It wouldn't work if even a sizable minority rejected it's authority. However, that certainly doesn't make it justified. Even in France, you have
people of this viewpoint. In fact, ideologically speaking, you would find that the earliest and most important people who viewed the government this way were French, in particular Bastiat and De Molinari. American proponents of this view only really existed because of European migrants in the 1920s and 30s.