(The road to hell is paved with good intentions)
Yes, Truean, you just said so the sentence before, thanks for having such high confidence in our ability to understand simple turn of phrase
Sorry about that. We all know my snark is a presence all its own. I seem to apologize for it regularly.
Honestly though, does everybody here understand the immense power of two seemingly innocent words: "Why not?"
Those damn things are destructive and immensely so. They shift the blame and the burden of thinking to the other person, and imply that the position not being allowed is legitimate until there is a reason stated as to why it is illegitimate. You've just shifted the burden of proof onto the other party and forced them to think while you may be expected to just sit back and listen. This gives the other side the burden of proof and may finally frustirate them into saying something that they might hang themselves with, while you look innocent because you were "just asking." It's monumentally huge.
Other examples include:
"Why should I have to pay for that?"
(Cause you're an adult and that's part of the deal already you cheap skate. If nobody paid for anything because everyone said that then NOTHING would be paid for and nothing would ever get done. Plus it benefits you, directly or indirectly.)
"Tell me why I can't?"
(Tell me why you can? Why is it my job to explain every single restriction? Why not justify yourself rather than forcing other people to stop you, Mr. I have no self control and will eat the entire bag of potato chips and then wonder why I'm gaining weight).
This is also the three year old who has discovered the trick of asking "why?" to everything until the parent explodes or gives up. This is Glen Beck saying Obama should explain why he hasn't presented his birth certificate. This is so many things. The list is infinite.... The unfortunate thing is that you have to balance this with legitimate curiousity or times when the burden SHOULD be shifted to the other side. Good luck developing a system to fairly define that, cause the legal system has been trying for years.
So when somebody says, "Why shouldn't we pay people for organs donated?" It just opens up a pandora's box that is so huge it just... wow.
Note: This is the exact opposite of the Null Hypothesis in science. Some hypothesis isn't true in science until you disprove the null hypothesis. You don't look for reasons it isn't. You look for reasons to prove that it is.... See also: "Proving a negative."