To clarify:
{Vanilla}
[If against Bandits!]
Get a weapon or something deadly, sharpened rocks maybe, and sneak + throw to disable or kill most of them. When they start falling to the ground and squealing in pain. '
C'hange combat to 'close combat' and attack. You will be breaking everything, appendages and all, of your target. Aim for the wrists/hands first, so they will drop their weapon.
If you're lucky, you may end up with a throw, launching your foe in the air! Sometimes...this can lead to their corpse being located ~3 or so screens away. Trust me, even same size creatures can do this.
[If against larger creatures]
Disable by striking the feet with a weapon [fists won't do unless you have good unarmed skill, most larger creatures kill unarmed smaller creatures. I.e. you.] then getting your enemy to a 'pain' or sitting position.
Keep it unconscious if possible, most attacks will be 'adjust grappling position'. This means MORE EXP for your wrestler!
[If against...
weak animals]
Just do the above
Also, on getting weapons/armor from anyone else, you should have ANY HAND FREE (Either hand will do). Nothing in that hand! You can then grapple it from the enemy and maybe throw it back at them.
I've dueled with a peasant, grabbed his clothes off him and threw them back at him point blank. A sock broke his skull, a rope reed sock.
To the above, choking helps but it doesn't get exp that fast. Breaking everything won't instantly kill your target, they will
slowly bleed out.