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[EuchreJack]

Well, looks like I lost a couple of months here.

You and me both, but thankfully I have GOOD REASONS. Been working a lot more, and a new part-time job! Yes, Solo Operator EJ has partially sold out for that sweet sweet regular paycheck!

Quick & Dirty 2022 list - September Edition
Life...sorta doesn't suck for me? NICE
1) Revise List throughout year
I'm going to count updating this in September, when I skipped...other months, as a minor victory 
2) Increase billing
Still a work in progress, slowed by NEW JOB. But this is less of a concern due to NEW JOB, which I'm rolling into this point as the goal is to work more and earn more.
3) Save Money
Had to dip into savings to pay auto repairs.  But was able to replenish the funds within a week due to FIRST PAYCHECK.
4) Lose weight target 180 lbs
I'm stabilizing around 200 lbs. Not ideal, but it doesn't seem to be increasing further.
5) Purchase at least one newish computer
No progress
6) Engage in one semi-formal dating experience with the opposite sex
Spent about 10 minutes talking to a girl, but have now chickened out on ever talking with her again.
7) Runnish a Half-Marathon (unofficially is fine)
I haven't totally abandoned walking, in fact I should do that now...
Read 3 books
Eh, no
9) Write a new short story and/or edit.compile an existing one
Kinda busy, but I at least thought up a new story based upon a contest that may or may not be over.
10) Update wardrobe with one newish suit
Still needs work, but I'm trying to dress better for the New Job
11) Continue saving for sis to get married.
The wedding is this month. I feel that I have contributed what I needed to contribute, and have some savings for an unexpected stuff
12) Clean, service, and fire some of these cool guns staring at me.
Dusty. I seem to be spending more time arguing about keeping them legal than handling them.

Keep expectations low to avoid disappointment!

Keep expectations high and learn to ignore disappointment!
I mean, why focus on 11 things not done when you can Celebrate A Success!

I found this to inspirational, so I'm going to try to keep it front-and-center for a while.  Sorta egotistical, but it means more since I can't ignore my own words.

[delphonso]

(Mental) Health:
1. Sign up for Chinese classes. If I want to reach further fluency, grammar is becoming a limiting hurdle.
-- Still no, but I've made progress this year, just from being somewhere I don't hate and therefore, interacting with people.
2. Maintain a reasonable diet. This cycle of binging and cutting is not good.
-- Mixed success, but still a success. The holiday came with a few pounds added (mostly in the form of beer)
3. Cook with an oven (this is harder than you might think) and introduce my wife and child to casseroles.
Did a lot more before. My wife and I are both cooking less, which we're both trying to change, but you know how it is.
4. Slay the Great Wyrm: Caffeine. You can still enjoy a coffee, but you shouldn't need 2 cups a day to survive.
-- Managed to back it down from 3+ to 2 a day. Probably will be a bit worse now that I'm back at work - since it's the only thing to drink.
5. Re-learn how to lift. Most of what you learned was in University, and almost certainly not based on evidence. Learn proper form and practice it (every week?).
No chance to return since work started. Time is limited, you know.
6. See a psychiatrist/take some therapy. It'll be good for you.
-- nope!

Accomplishments:
7. Finish all the code.golf challenges, even if your score isn't very good.
Been doing freeCodeCamp instead, which is probably the exact opposite, but still good..
8. Eat something you grew.
What's a garden? All we have is an overgrown rat farm.
9. Drink something you brew.
Well. A friend gave me some equipment, but I'm missing some valves, etc. We're planning to move in the next month, so this is on the back seat again. Maybe I can make some sangria and call it good.
10. Make another game, then do a gamejam or two. Also begin seriously working on a /bigger/ game.
Sewer Kings is done. I'm skipping gamejams for scheduling reasons. I'm in a pre-planning stage for trying a commercial project.
11. Find a hobby to share with the wife (you know...like bird-watching or something)
We've actually played both badminton and the Pokemon TCG regularly the last week, so maybe one of these will stick around.
12. De-radicalize a family-member (aim for the stars and if you miss, you'll land in the eternal vacuum of space!)
-- Good luck, bub.

[EuchreJack]

Just got a new computer today, so I'm declaring 2022 won!

[Vector]

Last check-in for the year, and wrap-up.

Behemoths

1. Pass topo preliminary exam. - I took the exam with an active case of COVID and a fever; I had to take a couple of naps in the middle; but I passed. Hooray! I'm close to earning my master's.
2. Clear algebra and analysis incompletes and new combinatorics incomplete, and new topology incomplete. - I still have some work to do on a couple of incomplete courses, but I'm emphatically out of the danger zone. I'm no longer concerned about being ejected from my program.
3. Prepare for and pass JLPT N1. - "Probably not this year. There's a few things happening in October and November that are going to make this impossible, and which are very important for me to participate in right now. I can't talk about what it is online, maybe I'll post in December."

Yeah, this didn't work out. There were a lot of surprises this year and I didn't have much of a plan to actually complete the N1. That's OK. Better luck next time.

4. Apply to 8 opportunities I don't feel I'm sure of getting.
- I applied for a grant through the school [REJECTED, try again this year]
- I applied to be a directed reading project mentor [REJECTED, try again in the fall]
- I applied for a summer workshop [ACCEPTED]
- I applied for a summer abolitionist teaching reading group [REJECTED]
- I applied for another summer workshop [ACCEPTED]
- I applied for a marginalized student peer mentorship program [ACCEPTED]
- I'm running for department student body president [ACCEPTED]
- I have a proposed thesis advisor [ACCEPTED]

5. Keep a journal. - I destroyed some old entries. I really wish I could stop destroying my own writing. Self-expression is a real problem for me. I get paranoid.
6. Depression treatment with magnets with needles with labor organizing. - I'm feeling much better than I did at the beginning of the year. This isn't the end of my mental health journey by a long shot but I am in a much better place.
7. Full Moon Teas - I didn't do even one. I'm kind of okay with that, I'm surrounded by people much younger than me who have a lot of drama. I feel like I missed out on seasonality this calendar year, though.
8. Martial arts practice. Goal is to regularly practice 4x weekly by the end of the year. - I went to two practices total this year. COVID really took me out in a bad way.
9. Continue to downsize right-size possessions. - The problem is now a lack of money more than anything else. I can't call it "done" but I feel really good about what I did this year. I also feel great about the breakup I mentioned in my last post.
10. Reading goals (see the Hot Fresh Reading Challenge) - Good enough.
11. Tithe 10% again this year and consistently volunteer three hours per month. - Gave substantially. Organized with the union from June to December. Next!
12. New Year Cards - I didn't send any cards; I'm desperately behind on email. This, too, is a relic of the past.


Paradoxically enough, I feel good about this year.

2020 was horrible. I had spent years building up to launching myself in a new career and literally the day when I was supposed to start resting before the career started, the lockdowns were called locally. 2020 - 1 was, for me, equally bad -- no normalcy there. 2020 - 2 was all about attempted recovery and constantly getting knocked off my feet but I at least feel that there is some chance of careening towards psychological normalcy. I dated seriously for the first time since 2014, helped with a strike, got myself out of the academic red zone, and am far more comfortable with being a trans person in the year of our lord twenty-twenty-two.

I have a lot of ideas for next year, so I'm going to head towards the new thread and try to write some stuff down.

[delphonso]

Successes!

2. Maintain a reasonable diet. This cycle of binging and cutting is not good.
-- Pretty good. Lost some weight and got back into fighting shape before getting covid and then gaining just a bit over the last few weeks.
3. Cook with an oven (this is harder than you might think) and introduce my wife and child to casseroles.
-- Cooking pretty regularly, introduced my wife to quite a few new foods.
5. Re-learn how to lift. Most of what you learned was in University, and almost certainly not based on evidence. Learn proper form and practice it (every week?).
-- Returned to gym, relearned some thing properly - though not as much about lifting as I'd have liked.
7. Finish all the code.golf challenges, even if your score isn't very good.
-- Not code.golf, but certainly learned a lot about programming.
8. Eat something you grew.
Herbs!
9. Drink something you brew.
-- made some very bad gin infusions!
10. Make another game, then do a gamejam or two. Also begin seriously working on a /bigger/ game.
-- Two this year, at least!
11. Find a hobby to share with the wife (you know...like bird-watching or something)
-- I put in as much effort as I could and we did share a few hobbies for fits and starts.


8/12! Not bad!

[None]

Oh, hell.

1) Comptia Security+ certification.
Nah. didn't happen.
2) Join another major user project as volunteer QA/testing.
I'm considering my work with the Elden Ring randomizer to qualify. This is done.
3) Write another game mod or two.
This didn't happen.
4) Write another 24 game reviews on Steam. That's two a month.
Fell way short here. Pretty much lost all momentum when I moved in May.
5) Stream twice a month. 2/2. 10/24.
Fell way short here. Pretty much lost all momentum when I moved in May.
6) Volunteer somewhere.
My volunteer work has ended up being primarily digital, and I guess that's okay.
7) Learn about local elections and stay abreast of ones I can vote in.
I've got the sticker that says this went well.
8 ) Go metal detecting or magnet fishing ten times this year. 6/10
Made friends with a local guy over a palm-sized hunk of iron I dug out from a foot under the sand. Pulled more shotgun shells out of a river. Fell short by quantity of forays, but I feel okay about this one.
9) Listen to 36 new albums.
On Wednesdays, I go to the local watering hole and they spin my vinyl records for me. I could do this at home, but now I've got a habit and a reputation to keep.
10) Participate in the Hot Fresh Reading Challenge thread.
I think I only read two or three books this year. I no longer possess the one that's stonewalled me for months. Read a few extra Let's Plays. Calling this one a flop since I didn't participate in the thread.
11) Go on a road trip.
I crossed state lines a few times, listened to indigenous speakers, and took a cheeky cave tour in what made for a really fun day trip with a friend. Good enough.
12) NEW - Unplug from the computer once a week. 4/4, 4/40.
As you can speculate, I stopped keeping count when I stopped posting in the thread. Did this one succeed? I dunno! I made a lot of great memories with my roommate since I moved in May.

Proud of you folks. This is not an especially accomplished year for me, but I spent a lot of quality time with an old friend, made a few new ones, maintained a bunch of social spheres, found a place to cozy in for the winter, and am in a pretty good jumping-off point to start looking for work internationally in the springtime to leave the states for good. Hopefully I'm qualified enough in my craft.

[EuchreJack]

Quick & Dirty 2022 list - End of Year Roundup
Life...seems to be going well?! NICE
1) Revise List throughout year
There were a couple revisions I think, plus some updating. COMPLETE
2) Increase billing
Oh god yes. Working part time, then working more on my own. COMPLETE
3) Save Money
I now have an obscene amount of money saved, although dunno how much of that is going to taxes. COMPLETE
4) Lose weight target 180 lbs
I'm stabilizing around 210 lbs. Not ideal, but I've been heavier. Plus Winter. WORK HARDER
5) Purchase at least one newish computer
New Computer achieved!  Currently posting from my NEW Laptop! COMPLETE
6) Engage in one semi-formal dating experience with the opposite sex
Spent a little more time socializing with the opposite sex. Might be options in the future? NONE OF YOUR DAMN BUSINESS
7) Runnish a Half-Marathon (unofficially is fine)
I have semi-regularly walked up the hill next to the house (every other week). TRY HARDER
Read 3 books
Eh, no
9) Write a new short story and/or edit.compile an existing one
Outlined a short story. COMPLETE
10) Update wardrobe with one newish suit
Over the last year, I picked up some new clothes, weeded out a couple bad ones, started wearing unopened clothes, and most importantly do laundry every week. COMPLETE
11) Continue saving for sis to get married.
The wedding is successfully completed, and I contributed appropriately. COMPLETE
12) Clean, service, and fire some of these cool guns staring at me.
I did dust one of them... SOMETHING TO LOOK FORWARD TO IN 2023

Keep expectations low to avoid disappointment!

Keep expectations high and learn to ignore disappointment!
I mean, why focus on 11 things not done when you can Celebrate A Success!

I found this to inspirational, so I'm going to try to keep it front-and-center for a while.  Sorta egotistical, but it means more since I can't ignore my own words.

Looking forward to 2023!

[Vector]

This seems like it was actually a pretty good year for most of us Thanks for participating

[Xantalos]

So, I, uh, didn't really do any checking in on these goals for most of the latter half of 2022. Things kinda got tough, but not really, but kinda. But let's see what we managed.

1. Practice some form of qigong or internal kung fu every day this year, or as close as I can manage. The occasional day missed is fine, but no big stretches without anything.

Had some quite long stretches where I didn't do anything, buuuuuut I did manage a good chunk of the year where I was doing stuff really consistently, so I'm gonna count this as a partial.

2. Get better at fingertip pushups. Ideally be able to do 50 in a single set.

Managed 50 the once, and have since fallen back to ... I don't know how many I can manage. I still do them though, so success!

3. Finish the current arc of my quest and start the next one. Be more consistent with updates, dammit.

Had a period where I totally burned out towards the last three/four months of the year, so this one's a nope.

4. Put effort towards learning another language - Czech or Chinese, either is fine.

Nooope. Maybe next year?

5. Get therapy (again). Address unresolved issues, figure out if I'm actually as autistic as I act, etc. General 'put effort towards continuing to better your mental wellbeing' slot.

Have been going to life coaching for 3 months, which ain't therapy, but it's helped! Success!

6. Write one original, not consciously based off another person or corporation's material thing. A short story, outline and partial draft of a novel, but something other than Warhammer stuff, as much as I love writing about lizardmen. Doesn't even matter if it gets shown to anyone or not.

Didn't actually finish it or get very far into it, but I did start a thing about a violent kung fu grandma. So fuck it, half success, points for starting.

7. Learn the long form of any style of taijiquan. Whether it's from that dvd or live instruction, just get that done.

GOAL COMPLETED! I can semi-reliably pull some of the moves off in grappling exchanges too.

8. Attempt to come to an answer about what career path I might like to pursue. At least spend time considering it. Will likely intersect with #5.

I have at long last come to the realization ... that I don't want to do the job I'm currently plunking away at. And that I've got to do some life reorganizing. Which is basically where I was at the year's start, but I've got what's a hopefully reinforced conviction so we'll call it a half point.

9. Make one (1) IRL friend around my age that is actually in local meatspace. Part of getting over chronic detachment from and disaffection towards people at large is making conscious effort to connect with people. This one might be mitigated by covid and/or zuckerberg shenanigans.

Instructions unclear, wound up with a supportive life partner.

4/9 completed, 3/9 partially done. If we tally partials as .5, that makes for 5.5/9, which is over 50%. A ...good year? Huh.

Know what, I'm gonna look at it that way. Any progress is good progress.