Well, shit.
I think i may be the only one here who doesn't feel a rush of pleasure from watching my video game characters suffer. This is awkward....
In DF i always strive to have the most successful fort possible, while trying to have my dwarves lead somewhat enjoyable lives.
When my little brother got Sims 3 for his birthday and wanted me to play with him, i eventually started trying to become the most powerful person in the town. With a kickass mansion i built from scratch, i might add. None of that trailer trash starting house bullshit.
In Black&White 2, i walled myself in and tried making life a paradise for all who resided within, i remember how happy i felt knowing that i was defeating the other rulers purely because their civilisations looked like crap compared to mine.
God i loved my giant wolf....
I could go on and on about all my obsession with wanting to be the best/provide the best for any little game character i have control of. I don't mind mercilessly slaughtering those who dare try to harm the little buggers too much, though.
Well, you know I used to feel similar way not a long ago, I was striving to not let anyone die, to get them best stuff ever, I was dumping hammerers weapon back in 40d, I was even able to savescum if I felt guilty for some really stupid death. I thought I would ever become like Sancis and the other guy, who tried to built a gecko outside Boatmurdered when shit got loose. That was before a dozen of forts meeting their fps death. Then, I began crushing unwanted migrants with drawbridge.... Now look at me, I have a kid going bersek in a care center, and I mechanic who punched some jeweler skull in, but that's fine because that was crappy jeweler and this is almost legendary mechanic, and I don't even twitch an eye when I lose several dwarves trying to capture live FB. Look at me and get used to thought that this is what awaits you ahead.
Hey, who knows, you may be right. But like i said, it's a habit that i've had far before DF.
It's a desire to be able to freely do whatever i want in a game, with the knowledge that i am the single most powerful entity within it. To ensure that everyone under my control lives in a utopia that all of my opponents could only dream of. Make the world a paradise for all who follow me, and hell for those against me. A divine creator unquestionably unmatched in power.
Same thing if i'm controlling a single character. I want the character to be the single greatest goddamn being within the game. To obtain all the best stuff, do all the best things, and have all my enemies crumble before me.
I'm thrilled when i have become so unstoppable that there is not a single challenge left in the game i cannot overcome with ease, and only get bored after i have finished making everything as ideal as possible. Whether or not that will change with Dwarf Fortress, only time will tell.
On a slightly unrelated note:
This is going to sound a tad arrogant, but a problem i always have with games that allow character customization, is that it i always find it incredibly difficult to create a character as awesome as myself, and since i usually want to create a character as closely related to me as possible, this tends to be quite a problem.