There are changes and fixes every few months but nothing super major. The most important was probably infantry and archers being somewhat rebalancedand more RP elements added (heraldry builder, character description page, erecting monuments, etc.)
As to my current noble family, my Lurian infiltrator was executed the other day. Got one upped by my political enemies. It's a long story that spans months of development. Long story short: a while ago she joined an enemy realm as a spy, helped orchestrate a military raid on it, got apprehended by her original realm's soldiers during the campaign, got framed by the judge (we hated each other's guts forever) as a double agent and executed. That sucked.
My other character though is a king of Perdan on Eastern Continent. We are fighting a war with the combined host of the northern realms with just Vix Tiramora as our sole ally. Really enjoy that character and that realm too. We have 24 nobles in the realm right now and a really strong military which has allowed us to stay afloat during this insanely one-sided war. Right now we're having a bit of an inside shitstorm, general having entered in a major row with his marshals. So the military is in disarray and we might just start losing the war after all. But hopefully not.
My last character is a mercenary knight on Belauterra continent. He is roaming from one realm to another wherever there is conflict and people are willing to pay. Right now he serves in a theocratic realm in the far south and is mostly fighting against roaming monsters and rogues. But there have been news that in the far north Gotland has attacked Caelint, which will invariably force Thalmarkin, Ar Agyr and other Northern Alliance realms to support Gotland, while Nothoi and Angmar will reinforce Caelint. Maybe Grehkia will also get involved, but that's unlikely given how they hate getting involved with anything. So I'm considering travelling north and offering my sword to the highest bidder. Always more fun to fight a war against other human realms than rogues.