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[acetech09]

One general rule I've found is 'leave it for a while. If it's still going, give it a shot.' because short-term crushes are among the most annoying things in existence.

Have you seen your personal text? :p

[Urist McScoopbeard]

Two cents incoming!

Just be friends with her. If your feelings don't go away after a while, then maybe see whats up. Even more important, see how you feel when you're away from her. If you easily forget about her, then maybe it's not love. Etc. Etc.

[QuakeIV]

I feel like a lot of you guys didnt fully read the OP.

>returns to crunching peanuts

[penguinofhonor]

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[QuakeIV]

Problem is: Her dad is a lawyer, and doesn't get to spend much time with their family, so he is thinking of moving to D.C. to get a job that pays less but he would get less hours. The already applied for the job, but hasn't received word back. I just found out yesterday that they might be moving.

What is the relationship between daughter and father?  If its a good one, consider the possibility that they are fishing for a reaction from you.

[Urist McScoopbeard]

Problem is: Her dad is a lawyer, and doesn't get to spend much time with their family, so he is thinking of moving to D.C. to get a job that pays less but he would get less hours. The already applied for the job, but hasn't received word back. I just found out yesterday that they might be moving.

What is the relationship between daughter and father?  If its a good one, consider the possibility that they are fishing for a reaction from you.

Do... do people do that? They're 16 and 17 man. This isn't game of thrones. If that was the case I'd be very offended and weirded out.

[penguinofhonor]

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[Vector]

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[inteuniso]

My first crush was named Allison. I asked her out on a date and she said yes but then she realized it was a date (I guess idk) and backed out.

PROTIP: Don't make moves in the 4th and 5th grade. No one is ready for it.

[Capaverde]

So, at a new years eve church dance, I was bored at the end. So I went in and started playing the piano. A girl and her friend came in and listened for a while, but eventually I went back inside the gym for the countdown. After that, everyone was rushing to pop balloons that had money in them, so I just went and played the piano to wait for it to end. Now I like girls a lot, and I like dancing, I just wasn't feeling it this particular dance. Anyways, the girl came back in (She was hoping to find me there as I later found out) And asked for my number. We talked over the [hone a lot, but have only seen each other in person 3 or 4 times. She admitted she liked me and would be my girlfriend when she turned 16 (I'm 17 she's fifteen). I like her a lot too. Her name is Allison.

Problem is: Her dad is a lawyer, and doesn't get to spend much time with their family, so he is thinking of moving to D.C. to get a job that pays less but he would get less hours. The already applied for the job, but hasn't received word back. I just found out yesterday that they might be moving.

I'm not really sure if I just like or, or actually love her now. I had a dream that night that they ended up moving, and I woke up crying for some reason. I really like being around her, and can't stop thinking about her. Is this normal love, or just an obsessive crush?

I like to think love can only be in a mildly-stable relationship. Your case is infatuation and anticipation, which aren't bad things. The best way for you to overcome it is to approach her with these worries, so that if they end up moving away you at least got some closure from it.