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[~Neri]

Are you absolutely certain it's unworkable? As in 100%? Is this decision based off how she was in the past or how she is now? Cause to be honest? It sounds like you two click very very well.

[Gokajern]

Ah but that's the thing, it sounds like we click pretty well, but the relationship was more complex than that. You do raise a point, we had a short talk and I don't really know how much she changed over the years, yet even in spite of my fondness of her I'm still sure it's unworkable. Perhaps everything felt really familiar, but I know her and my values well enought to know it ain't worth the hassle.

[~Neri]

Do you know her values in the slightest? It's been four years. You've effectively just met a new person who had a base personality you remember from years ago.

[Gokajern]

To what extent is she a new person I wonder. Assuming that I can just barge in again into her life and make everything good again is wishful thinking. I can admit that I'm probably convincing myself that everything is more or less the same, the thing is I'm most likely right. I went there, I spoke to her, she looked the same, she felt the same. Maybe I'm wrong but that's besides the point, like I said it's wishful thinking. Aside from everything else anyway now it's just not a good time for me.

[birdy51]

I've personally found that there is never a good time for anything. There are things that are conveniently timed, but a right time to do something is rare.