More of a sort of venting than actual advice question :<
As I write this, I am taking a break from excessively difficult math problems that seem to exist juat to push the limits of mathematical puzzle-solving. In my short 1 year stay in the US, these types of problems don't exist in a typical school setting. But here is where they all go to live, and it's driving me crazy. Most problems hinge on finding a crucial hint that is hidden amongst the details and then using a weird method to follow that to the answer. To me, the finding of the crucial hint is too hard. :/ It never feels like I can improve myself because the harder problems are usually like that. And my school is one of the most competitive public high schools in Korea, which means the hardest problems occassional appear on te math tests. Because grading is relative, those who do manage to get the problems right get As (1 or 2) while I have to struggle to not go below a 4 (B, top 40%). It hugely stresses me and sometimes I imagine how better I would feel if I just stopped trying, even though that would ruin my chances of going to a good foreign university. =_=
Uhh.. guess that's it. I probably have more to say but I can't think of it right now. I could totes provide example problems If you wish.