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Author Topic: Someone trying to Home school their senior year of High School.  (Read 5407 times)

Markus

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Exactly what it says on the tin - a kid whose currently ranked 1 in the class as co-valedictorian wants to go and pull a fast one - he wants to switch to homeschooling his final year in a school he's been going to for eleven years.

Much as I may want to dissuade him with a powerful argument against him, I'm trying to be neutral and present the ups and downs - though he's been considering it for a few years now, and he might just brush me off by bringing up all my points before I can even say them.

Any experience with people like that-going to the same school "for life" and then just homeschooling their last year?
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Re: Someone trying to Home school their senior year of High School.
« Reply #1 on: May 29, 2013, 02:10:38 pm »

Hey, I did it.

I tried a lot of different schools (private, online, even a little bit of public but the public schools here are just terrible) up until my senior year. Then I just homeschooled. Let me pull out the ups and downs.

Ups:
*If he doesn't take advantage of all the extra free time like a lot of senior year homeschoolers do, he's stupid. Seriously, by the time I finished high school, I literally had a year of community college classes done due to filling up my day with them for all of twelfth grade. An early start like that is a lot more difficult in a traditional school when you're loaded down with a ton of homework already.
*Lots more freedom for hobbies/work. I did all the necessary schoolwork for finishing off my transcript, but past that and college, I also took the time to be on-call for computer troubleshooting, web maintenance and the other odd jobs I got called in for that I didn't have time to do in earlier semesters.

Downs:
*Social life goes down the drain. This really isn't avoidable - I had some friends who I hung out with during senior year, but most were in traditional school, and I didn't get a good group back together until my first full year of college. I ended up hanging out at hobbyist clubs with older people and going on hikes with friends to catch up, but it wasn't quite the same.
*Gotta be pretty proactive. Homeschool, especially on the high school level, requires a lot of responsibility that some people just don't have. For example: my brother, who was homeschooled far longer, pretty much abused the freedom and sat on youtube all day then lied about doing his schoolwork for online classes (that didn't end well). If your friend wants to go into homeschool to "relax" or "because it's easier" then be wary.

Sorry this isn't really organized, but you wanted a perspective.
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Re: Someone trying to Home school their senior year of High School.
« Reply #2 on: May 29, 2013, 04:03:07 pm »

It's a great opportunity if he's dedicated to furthering his education, and you make it sound like he is (you usually don't get valedictorian status by accident). As such, he's probably far better off home-schooling than attending a public school.
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Re: Someone trying to Home school their senior year of High School.
« Reply #3 on: May 31, 2013, 12:53:17 pm »

If he's been considering it for so long, why the urge to dissuade him? He probably knows the issue a lot better than you. Why don't you ask him what he thinks?

A lot of the cruft and day-to-day in conventional high-school is a very large waste of time - from personal experience, he'll have more time than he knows what to do with, which can actually lead to being a bit less productive. So yeah, ask him if he's planning to take any college-level courses at the same time. That might be an excellent benefit for him, if you have a technical college in the area or if he's willing to work online. If you want to stay in touch, consider taking the same classes with him, if it's possible.
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Re: Someone trying to Home school their senior year of High School.
« Reply #4 on: June 13, 2013, 05:35:27 pm »

I'd say that anything, from having a social life to learning calculus, is really up to you to accomplish, especially to accomplish well. Beyond the elementary level different school systems are mostly just different support networks for all that; and the homeschool version depends greatly on what sort of homeschool community is in the area and whether you're willing and able to hook up with it. (I've known some so massive and active that they rivalled the public school communities in the area and even each other in a friendly, many people participate in both sort of way.) Granted public school has both more drudgework -- and more things that you would always have to jump through hoops to get but at least the hoops are positioned facing the official institutions so they don't tell you, "Sorry, you can't jump through the hoop," without even letting you try.

But there's a funny little fact: if you don't pursue some high-end or cutting-edge career, chances are you'll retain what you need to from school, get rusty on the rest and learn anything you missed on the job. And here's another one: if you do pursue a high-end or cutting-edge career then chances are good that, while you might get in cheaper by getting scholarships right out of high school, most of the skills and learning you need to acquire begin (or at least begin to be truly fortified or applied) at college anyway. In the end, it's possible that the thing most affected by whether you do public school or homeschool for a year is -- where you happen to be that year.

Personally, I don't have a lot of the opportunities people said I could pursue as I came up out of high school and into college. But I have independence now. And independence means that I work a full week and have little time for my own pursuits, but I can spend that little time pursuing -- whatever the heck I want. Do you know how that compares to the big opportunities everyone used to talk about? It's AWESOME. Oh, it may not get me any recognition, but accomplishment's another matter. And it's entirely on my own time and terms, aside from the mandatory full work week. And hey, that full work week? Everyone who isn't the spawn of a millionaire has that anyway, some people just manage to get to do what they actually like for it -- and I managed to pull that off too, despite switching colleges so many times it took me four years to get a two-year degree.

So I say, encourage your friend to do whatever he wants to do, just so long as he makes the most of it! And as others said, don't be afraid to try to do some of it with him, whether for your own betterment or just to keep up.

(Full disclosure: I was homeschooled from the start up through college. I think it went well; I got to college and felt like many [not necessarily most, but many] undergraduate classes were just remedial highschool, and I graduated and am still in the area I grew up in and know a lot of people here -- both of my own generation and of the older -- because we have been part of the same homeschool community. But most importantly, I got to that point where I can continue growing and teaching myself, meeting new people and getting to know them too, and basically able to make up anything lacking in my background and experience through further effort; and once you're there I don't think it matters much where you got there from.)
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