I don't lose a adventurer to a bogeyman since 31.17, not because I fight them, but I rarely encounter them. You have to plan ahead, do not travel alone if you are going too far away from places to stay at night. And if they come, just run and attack if they get too close. They usually dodge back, giving time for you to run away.
Once again if you don't plan on being an explorer then yes you are perfectly right. There are enough things within a days travel for you to help deal with.
If you are an explorer it is unavoidable however. A roll I actually am quite fond of doing. Or heck start off in an area with a lot of rivers.
i missed the part where dwarf fortress had to be easy...
they are supposed to be scary, you are supposed to not want to travel alone, DF is NOT another fantasy game, and it is NOT designed to feature favorable consequences.
their will be unwinnable battles.
their will be unfair consequences.
their will be no 'easy' way out.
-Difficulty doesn't replace gameplay, Dwarf Fortress already gave you reasons not to travel alone previously... In fact one of the major reasons you travel alone in Dwarf Fortress is because your companions tended to be soo absolutely effective that it made adventure mode unfun and it still does. Dwarf Fortress is "another fantasy" simulator (canon). And it is designed to feature favorable consequences believe it or not, just that not many of them were added.
-Annoying isn't scary, it is annoying. Boogeymen were scary the first 5 or 10 times. By the time you fought your 100th pair and realise that they are just flys that can kill you with magic punches they get a lot less scary. They don't even fight like they are supposed to be scary. They are more like a herd of Kung Fu Babies (litterally).
-The issue isn't that it is unfair, the issue is that it is wearing out its welcome.
-Boogeymen are negated if you have a lowly peasant walking with you, if you travel outside fast travel, or if you simply sleep with others at night (boogeymen have no problem attacking others in homes, so long as you arn't inside). So your easy out statement is somewhat negated.