After waiting many years for my dwarves to have their first wedding, then even longer waiting for the second couple to tie the knot, I thought about how and why it did happened and realized we can speed the process along.
I was working them too hard, they never had very many parties. And when they did they were just making more friends. Of the 7 starting dwarves, 6 were already paired up as lovers at the very start, but the first wedding didn't happen until Spring 1065.
Three offspring later in 1071 I realized I could lock the lovers into a room with a meeting place table and a statue garden, with enough food and booze that they'll never be without. They'll have nothing to do but throw parties and get to know each other better, no-one else to talk to but each other. Quickly make squads out of the existing couples, recruit one, set their guard station to the center of a 5x5 room with all the amenities, lock em in and convert them back to civilians.
Sure enough Momuz Adlogem and Rovod Udibudil decided to tie the knot after only one season of sequestered counseling. The second couple recruited to gaurd the love nest were only in there for a few days before they tied the knot. I was even able to take a pair all the way from passing acquaintance to honeymooners in only two seasons.
It's a wonder what a little one-on-one time can do for a relationship.
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